“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The chick wants me to get naked with her, but I'm a lil chubby right now...wat to do?

Sniper2k

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Hi guys. I feel lucky to have a fine@$$ hotbabe I'm DJing. I'm so close to fvcking her, but one thing stands in my way. I'm a lil overweight! She told me she'll get naked if "I" do, but I am so hesitant. With clothes on I look fine, but out of them you can clearly see I'm a chubby guy. She seems really comfortable with me, but I'm unsure how she'll react when she finally sees me in the buff. I don't want to make her wait till I lose some pounds, she might lose interest. You guys think I should just go for it and bang her on our next date or lose the weight first? What do you guys think?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Spike_the_cowboy

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You should not feel lucky - SHE should!

If you don't care, neither will she. Go for it now, and lose the weight later on if you feel that you really must. Just calm down and be cool. If you wait till' you lose the weight she'll be gone, and you'll be alone (or you'll be with another HB that you can't get naked with). You likely won't be with her for very long anyways, so enjoy it whlile it lasts - GET SOME!

Remember, attitude is far more important, Bro. A woman can't tell the difference between a seven foot muscle man, and a four foot geek who ACTS like one.

Be cool~

:cool:
 

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Spike is spot on! Above everything else, DO NOT let it affect your confidence. Don't try to cover your body, don't try to suck your stomach in or anything like that. Relax!

Seriously, just don't worry. I doubt you'd be put off by her if she had a little excess flab, right?
 

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Don't sweat it....

Just because your a few lbs overweight it's not going to turn her off - she probably already knows your carrying Xtra weight...

Be confident and continue your DJ ways.
 

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Sex burns calories, which helps you lose weight...Think about it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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