Attraction
Don Juan
i am sorry if some of you are offended by this post cuz it has almost nothing to do with getting laid.
u guyz are lucky that u live in the areas of the world where boundaries and limitations to life are minimal. and i am lucky in another sense. i live in a third worlds country with tons and tons of limitations to personal expansion. and that means lots of strength (of character).
and i am one of those bastards in this area who are willing to stand up against the society and create the life that they want. n this scares the hell out of the impotent crowd of this place. there are very few ppl like this over here, and they all face similar problems from the society.
yes, the biggest problem is that ppl start hating you. they hate you for your arrogance (read: self-respect and confidence) and they hate you for your transparency. and then you reinforce your behavior by the urges that swirl in your balls to go out and take from the world what you want.
and then the world sees that you, unlike them, are ready to live your dreams. and they start hating you even more. here's an example. i am a student of my country's best business school. this institute also accomodates some people from the governments' Central Board of Revenue, who are doing their "MBA crash course". one of my friends (Saad is his name) is a candidate for students' club elections. so he is continuously building PR with all the students including CBRs. he called me yesterday and said "a CBR dude saw u roaming around the cafeteria and said 'i wanna **** up this fido dido (how insulting!! ), he looks so arrogant!" he used these "fido dido" words cuz i am skinny and have spikey hair. i had never even talked to him, i dont know who that chap was. but it just shows how much ppl start hating u when u start giving off the vibes that u ar willig to do wat pleases u, and all the world can fvck off with their sh*tty opinions.
even my family has started to suffocate me. i happen to have born in a family with 4 women (mother and 3 sisters) and a father who is not a very aggressive go-getter type, but a very conservative type. thank God that i got the right type of frds who help build up who i am now. otherwise i wud have been the same Super-sissy-wuss-bag that i used to be till my early teens ( now i am on the end of my teens-road).
in my family, their is a guy who first rebelled agains society and decided to create his own reality. he was scorned and socially boycotted, though the reason of the boycott was that he became a criminal en route. then another guy decided to live his life freely. left his college, and started doing odd jobs (an offense in the country i live in) to earn his living. he was scorned too. and then there is a whole generation of rebels coming up. and we are all ready to face severe oppression. since i am the eldest of them all, and am already in university, i have already started facing severe criticism for my dominant attitude and behavior.
my sister said a few days ago ... "u r our brother, and so is 'N' (my cousin), thats why we tolerate you, but the way you guyz behave, people especially gurls hate you. they think u guyz are teh greatest a$$holes on the planet." n i said "i do not care about what they think. its demeaning to me to change my behavior just cuz of some unworthy gurls who mean nothing to me." and she was pissed by my answer big time.
my dad hates my attitude of getting what i want, and my grades in the university are fvcked up cuz i am so very different from the people who form workgroups with me. there is a whole "S" (my real name) haters club in the university, cuz i refuse to conform to their standards.
people, i know pook's words maybe flashing in ur mind that "i dont speak of my life, cuz its irrelevant to you". but i am speaking about my life to give you guyz an illustration of wat the lifestyle is all about. the path is difficult. we want to improve our life, and society wont allow us to.
if you are after gurls, forget it. cuz once u start to get your own life, gurls start hating you. they hate me, n i dont care, cuz i have my priorities. i dunno about america .. but here it is very much like this. i lost all the gurls i wanted for the following reasons :
gurl 1 ... 1998 (early teens, not really a wuss): "It's impossible, my family is very strict" (crying while saying this)
gurl 2 ... 2001 (mid teens, big wime wuss): "u r a great friend"
gurl 2 again .. 2002 ... (mid teens, BIG TIME anti wuss): stopped talking to her, she became attracted but "u r such a jerk"
gurl 3 ... 2002 (mid teens): "you have a very strong personality. u have a very dark shdow in which i find myself lost. i dont see myslef anywhere"
gurl 4 ... 2004 (end of teens): "i liek you as a friend, but we are incompatible, u have a VERY BIG EGO."
yes guyz ... four gurls ... with whom i was i luv ( i want an LTR), n they all rejecetd me for my attitude. for my extreme self-love. yes, i am hurt .. .but i have my values and priorities. gurls in university hate me, too ... but they are too mediocre, n i dont even think about them.
i tell u from experience that u can eithert get ur dreams or ur gurl. be a ***** to ur gurl ... n she'll stay loyal (but will whip u whenever possible). but again, that's not a LAW. there are loads of guyz i know, who are like me, but are in prosperous LTR's (or STR's in some cases) with the gurls they want.
i wud say .. get ur life, before u get ur gurl. luv urself before u luv ur gurl. put urself on a pedestal before u put her on one. own ur life, on which society is ruling as an usurper.
cuz anybody can have a gurl, but very few ppl get their desired lives. its much more noble.
the path is difficult, but thats the beauty of the game. easy things aint attractive. LIVE your life, and LOVE your life. all the best!!!
ATTRACTION!
u guyz are lucky that u live in the areas of the world where boundaries and limitations to life are minimal. and i am lucky in another sense. i live in a third worlds country with tons and tons of limitations to personal expansion. and that means lots of strength (of character).
and i am one of those bastards in this area who are willing to stand up against the society and create the life that they want. n this scares the hell out of the impotent crowd of this place. there are very few ppl like this over here, and they all face similar problems from the society.
yes, the biggest problem is that ppl start hating you. they hate you for your arrogance (read: self-respect and confidence) and they hate you for your transparency. and then you reinforce your behavior by the urges that swirl in your balls to go out and take from the world what you want.
and then the world sees that you, unlike them, are ready to live your dreams. and they start hating you even more. here's an example. i am a student of my country's best business school. this institute also accomodates some people from the governments' Central Board of Revenue, who are doing their "MBA crash course". one of my friends (Saad is his name) is a candidate for students' club elections. so he is continuously building PR with all the students including CBRs. he called me yesterday and said "a CBR dude saw u roaming around the cafeteria and said 'i wanna **** up this fido dido (how insulting!!
), he looks so arrogant!" he used these "fido dido" words cuz i am skinny and have spikey hair. i had never even talked to him, i dont know who that chap was. but it just shows how much ppl start hating u when u start giving off the vibes that u ar willig to do wat pleases u, and all the world can fvck off with their sh*tty opinions. even my family has started to suffocate me. i happen to have born in a family with 4 women (mother and 3 sisters) and a father who is not a very aggressive go-getter type, but a very conservative type. thank God that i got the right type of frds who help build up who i am now. otherwise i wud have been the same Super-sissy-wuss-bag that i used to be till my early teens ( now i am on the end of my teens-road).
in my family, their is a guy who first rebelled agains society and decided to create his own reality. he was scorned and socially boycotted, though the reason of the boycott was that he became a criminal en route. then another guy decided to live his life freely. left his college, and started doing odd jobs (an offense in the country i live in) to earn his living. he was scorned too. and then there is a whole generation of rebels coming up. and we are all ready to face severe oppression. since i am the eldest of them all, and am already in university, i have already started facing severe criticism for my dominant attitude and behavior.
my sister said a few days ago ... "u r our brother, and so is 'N' (my cousin), thats why we tolerate you, but the way you guyz behave, people especially gurls hate you. they think u guyz are teh greatest a$$holes on the planet." n i said "i do not care about what they think. its demeaning to me to change my behavior just cuz of some unworthy gurls who mean nothing to me." and she was pissed by my answer big time.
my dad hates my attitude of getting what i want, and my grades in the university are fvcked up cuz i am so very different from the people who form workgroups with me. there is a whole "S" (my real name) haters club in the university, cuz i refuse to conform to their standards.
people, i know pook's words maybe flashing in ur mind that "i dont speak of my life, cuz its irrelevant to you". but i am speaking about my life to give you guyz an illustration of wat the lifestyle is all about. the path is difficult. we want to improve our life, and society wont allow us to.
if you are after gurls, forget it. cuz once u start to get your own life, gurls start hating you. they hate me, n i dont care, cuz i have my priorities. i dunno about america .. but here it is very much like this. i lost all the gurls i wanted for the following reasons :
gurl 1 ... 1998 (early teens, not really a wuss): "It's impossible, my family is very strict" (crying while saying this)
gurl 2 ... 2001 (mid teens, big wime wuss): "u r a great friend"
gurl 2 again .. 2002 ... (mid teens, BIG TIME anti wuss): stopped talking to her, she became attracted but "u r such a jerk"
gurl 3 ... 2002 (mid teens): "you have a very strong personality. u have a very dark shdow in which i find myself lost. i dont see myslef anywhere"
gurl 4 ... 2004 (end of teens): "i liek you as a friend, but we are incompatible, u have a VERY BIG EGO."
yes guyz ... four gurls ... with whom i was i luv ( i want an LTR), n they all rejecetd me for my attitude. for my extreme self-love. yes, i am hurt .. .but i have my values and priorities. gurls in university hate me, too ... but they are too mediocre, n i dont even think about them.
i tell u from experience that u can eithert get ur dreams or ur gurl. be a ***** to ur gurl ... n she'll stay loyal (but will whip u whenever possible). but again, that's not a LAW. there are loads of guyz i know, who are like me, but are in prosperous LTR's (or STR's in some cases) with the gurls they want.
i wud say .. get ur life, before u get ur gurl. luv urself before u luv ur gurl. put urself on a pedestal before u put her on one. own ur life, on which society is ruling as an usurper.
cuz anybody can have a gurl, but very few ppl get their desired lives. its much more noble.
the path is difficult, but thats the beauty of the game. easy things aint attractive. LIVE your life, and LOVE your life. all the best!!!
ATTRACTION!
