Woah.. this is the best article I've ever read. The most inspiring thing I've seen. I literally had tears in my eyes at some points. Thank you. I probably won't be at these forums for a while, and when I am, I'll be posting advice ;-)
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The Cartography Of Hell
- Thread starter drjekyll
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Technical1
Senior Don Juan
bump. This post is deep.
Aiken_Drum
Master Don Juan
This post deserves a re-bump.
Congrats Jekyll, I loved it!
Congrats Jekyll, I loved it!
dannyegg4575
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very well written. 
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
ExcelNPrevail
Don Juan
I love this post so much so inspiring. BUMP BUMP IT UP!!!!!!!
Just ....cough.... wanted to LET every1 know that I have made it out of hell, Im out ! , praise be to God , Allah , Buddah, e.t.c.
If u find this threads' posts too long to read online , I suggest you print out all the parts dr jekyll posted.
If you are struggling badly with poon, see a shrink or go for a counselling session if you can and be cooperative to the treatment you are being offered and also be detailed in a non-crass/ blunt manner, about your situation; so you can get the best help on offer.
Sometimes this stuff stems from deeper family based or other issues than just poon Thanks Aiken drum and God bless you!
If u find this threads' posts too long to read online , I suggest you print out all the parts dr jekyll posted.
If you are struggling badly with poon, see a shrink or go for a counselling session if you can and be cooperative to the treatment you are being offered and also be detailed in a non-crass/ blunt manner, about your situation; so you can get the best help on offer.
Sometimes this stuff stems from deeper family based or other issues than just poon Thanks Aiken drum and God bless you!
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Aiken_Drum
Master Don Juan
Good for you man
I'm coming out myself!
I'm coming out myself!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.