Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The carouselle. What is the point?

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I gotta admit - I am almost tired of chasing pu$$y. I meet girls and I could probably be in a relationship with a few, but I still want to chase until I find a good one. So may be i found one, certainly feel like "I want this to work" when I am thinking of her. Would make life different for a bit.. year, two, but then what? I don't want to get married, I want to do a lot of things, but going out all the time and chasing is getting old. And working on yourself is all great, but in the end of the day nature says you must go get some.

May be having a couple of FB is the answer. I don't know, just venting.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Amazing said:
I gotta admit - I am almost tired of chasing pu$$y. I meet girls and I could probably be in a relationship with a few, but I still want to chase until I find a good one. So may be i found one, certainly feel like "I want this to work" when I am thinking of her. Would make life different for a bit.. year, two, but then what? I don't want to get married, I want to do a lot of things, but going out all the time and chasing is getting old. And working on yourself is all great, but in the end of the day nature says you must go get some.

May be having a couple of FB is the answer. I don't know, just venting.
You're 26 like me. I have found having several FB is the answer. I have no inner desire to be in a serious, heavy duty LTR.. it's just not the time in my life for that. Girls still love being with me even though.... and why? Because I'm fun, adventurous, outgoing and livin the life... I make it fun when I go out, I don't wait for the place I'm going to make it fun for me..

You are putting wayyyyy too much pressure on yourself with all these "gotta find a quality girl to make her my woman" ideals. Just enjoy life day by day, have fun with women IN the moment. Let relationships develop naturally, whatever they become.

Having tons of cute n fun FB's is a lot of fun anyway.. and as long as your keepin it real you good to go.

Play on playa
 

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BeyondCharm said:
You're 26 like me. I have found having several FB is the answer. I have no inner desire to be in a serious, heavy duty LTR.. it's just not the time in my life for that. Girls still love being with me even though.... and why? Because I'm fun, adventurous, outgoing and livin the life... I make it fun when I go out, I don't wait for the place I'm going to make it fun for me..

You are putting wayyyyy too much pressure on yourself with all these "gotta find a quality girl to make her my woman" ideals. Just enjoy life day by day, have fun with women IN the moment. Let relationships develop naturally, whatever they become.

Having tons of cute n fun FB's is a lot of fun anyway.. and as long as your keepin it real you good to go.

Play on playa

Good stuff, thanks. What is missing right now is when I go out I usually have single guys with me and I am the one who is like you, making it fun, but some of the guys have hard time getting anywhere, so I play papa hen trying to hook them up too.

Its not organic, where you have a lot of people, girls guys mixed, and you are having a blast.. you know what i mean? I had that for a few years and it was good, always girls coming in and out of the circle.. now I know a few but I dont bring them out or they dont really bring any other worthy girls.. so I am trying to expand that last 3 weeks been getting numbers trying to get them to be FRIENDS first, funny concept i know.

I think thats the life though, if you go out with guys, you gotta hunt.
 
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