"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The Carousel

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I just heard a radio ad that was for a womans Beauty Spa pamper place whatever you call them. the ad said " get off the cosmetic carousel" :crackup: I couldn't help but laugh my ass off. That's not the carousel that women really need to get off of LMFAO.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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logicallefty said:
I just heard a radio ad that was for a womans Beauty Spa pamper place whatever you call them. the ad said " get off the cosmetic carousel" :crackup: I couldn't help but laugh my ass off. That's not the carousel that women really need to get off of LMFAO.
Lolz, Id have probably cracked up too.

What bothers me through is that girls wouldnt really need so much cosmetics if they simply ate well, exercised, and stayed away from cigarettes. Cosmetics is like a face shortcut, the way crash diets are body shortcuts.

As I get older I start to worry about a my dating pool possibly shrinking because of my pickiness and that people just start letting themselves go. All I can do is keep myself on the fitness, health, and career carousel (lolz)...and hope to find similar gals :cool:
 
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Look abroad, man, especially to S. America and Asia. Ladies there have no problem with accepting an older man, "even if" you don't have much money and are not going to take her home to your country. If you've got very modest means, say $1000 per month pension, it goes 3-4x as far there as it will in the US, UK< or Australia.
 
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