"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Okay I have been running a tight game for some time now, and before I was just getting numbers to get them (my jar is almost full ;) ) . I'm ready to take my game to the next level, day 2s. I met this Asian HB8.5 last night... got her number. I dont want to come across totally afc and call her the next day so I havnt yet. What time frame do you all use? I was thinking a week, but thats too long. Also I know from the past... "ONLY USE THE PHONE TO PICK A PLACE TO MEET!"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'd call her on tuesday... but since it's valentines on monday, maybe you should wait til wednesday and plan something for the follwing early week. Monday/tuesday.

Calling the day after Valentines might raise some suspicion, though...... It just feels a bit like you would be in a hurry.

Waiting a week might be a good idea, actually.
 
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Totally. I think I will wait untill Thurs or Friday, see if she wants to do anything.
 
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Check out what people have to say about it by using the search button. This has been asked and answered at least 100 times. Keep up the good work with the numbers...
 
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