"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Bus Stop (Subtitled: how to know you aren't getting any)

bigneil

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You know a date hasn't gone well when the girl starts gathering all of her things and has her hand on the door handle before your car officially stops moving.

This is known as the "bus stop" and is a good thing to keep an eye out for. Don't even say a word if she does this. It's a remarkably lame thing that women love to do.

When this happens, you are dead in the water IMO. Has anyone ever converted a mass transit passenger into a lover?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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A first date only went well if she sees you again. No different than acing a job interview, as in it's only aced until you receive a job offer.

For the bus stop, just delete her from all platforms as she's doing it. Block her if needed.
 

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I had a "double date" like 5 years a go with 2 twins. My buddy was really lame and acting beta, he was the one driving the car.

The 2 girls were from sweden acting like princesses and sh1t sitting at the back. They told my buddy where he should drive, but didnt want to share the location. i then told tthem politely that its our car and we decide where we go.

Long story short - they said they wanna go home, i told them to f*ck off out of the car, because they started yelling at my buddy that he should drive them to the location they wanted to go to.
It turned out they wanted to use my buddy to drive them into a wedding... good thing i was there.


Now this is a real bus stop situation here.
 
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