"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The bump technique (share your accidental discovered tricks)

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Went out by myself on Halloween in downtown to a bar hop (we call it a bar crawl in the states) and several Women would either bump into me as I walked by spilling my drink on me or would get some of their drink on me from a straw. I would immediately use that opportunity to call them out on it in a playful ****y way to start a conversation. The Woman’s guard will be down because she just spilled on you. Take advantage of this guys. It worked wonders for me. Please share some of your tricks you’ve come across on accident.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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