"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The breakup - Vince's pickup

tigers2006

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If you've seen the breakup, the scene at the begginning of the movie at wrigley feild is awesome. He showed great pick up skills. Here is a quote:

"lets not make this weird because I'm not good on dates...I'm very we should just hang out, If we dont have fun i might go my seperate way, I'm not commiting to anything" Vince after picking up Jennifer Anniston at a baseball game WHEN she was with another dude.

I think this line is pretty smooth, what do you think?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Charm

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Its putting a potential negative out there by saying "If we dont have fun" rather than a positive but he spins that by showing he can dissattach easily so it might work.

Telling her hes not good on dates doesnt really help either. Just telling her "Lets haung out, we'll have a great time"

saying hes not commiting to anyithng could also come off to her as him having commitment problems. Just some thoughts.
 

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He's a quick witted fun guy... plain and simple... wat woman dosen't want that ?


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Until I see the movie the jury is out. I have it though so we shall see.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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