"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Break Up

Mr. Fresh

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Ok Im here to tell all you DJ newbies to warn you on use of kino. It can be powerful, but if you use it wrong, you could end up losing a girl. I was going out with this girl who I met on myspace and we really hit it off and she was the greatest. We went out a lot and kissed and I used all the techiniques the DJ Bible gave me to pick her up. However, the first time I met her friends, we hung out at their place to watch a movie and I initated a cuddle with my girl and she was leaning on top of me while my arm was around her. My hand went to rub her tummy, to holding her hand, to her thigh and all of this was cautious and slow. The reason she flipped out was cause I rubbed my hand on her inner thigh near the stairway to heaven and I never did this b4 and she didnt tell me to stop and days later she told me she didnt like it and i embarassed her in front of my friends and this is the reason we broke up from a month relationship. WTF I dont know what I did wrong I warn to all newbies that kino is again powerful but only if used the right way and not to rush. BTW to any master DJs is there anyway I can fix this relationship? she wants to break up and was pissed even thou i apologized and she wont take any **** from me and doesnt talk to me. How can i bounce back from a break up?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Patrick124

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suck it up. shes a prude anyways, u can do better.
i mean..1 month in, u should be hitting it by now.
 

DJsomeday

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don't listen to her, you apologized so now it's up to her.

I agree/disagree with you at the same time i think there are girls that like the use of kino a lot like slutty girls and stuff and there are girls that don't like it so fast, it depends on the kind of girl and the context IMO.

Good luck! move on!
 

Mjazz

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the problem is that it was in front of her friends, and you probably didnt wait for her to up the ante before you did. Yea she doesnt seem like a very quality girl, either you break it off or just stop caring, o no she stopped talking to you, now your life is ruined because she was the only girl out there
 

Plec07

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Give her a freeze-out and get the jelousy aroused in her. And to be honest I wouldn't be surprised if thats not why she broke it off with you. I think she probably just lost interest and used that as an excuse to break it off with you because she didn't wanna look like a retard saying "I'm too fluctuant with my interest level in guys and right now I'm bored with you."
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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