"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Break Up

Mr. Fresh

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Ok Im here to tell all you DJ newbies to warn you on use of kino. It can be powerful, but if you use it wrong, you could end up losing a girl. I was going out with this girl who I met on myspace and we really hit it off and she was the greatest. We went out a lot and kissed and I used all the techiniques the DJ Bible gave me to pick her up. However, the first time I met her friends, we hung out at their place to watch a movie and I initated a cuddle with my girl and she was leaning on top of me while my arm was around her. My hand went to rub her tummy, to holding her hand, to her thigh and all of this was cautious and slow. The reason she flipped out was cause I rubbed my hand on her inner thigh near the stairway to heaven and I never did this b4 and she didnt tell me to stop and days later she told me she didnt like it and i embarassed her in front of my friends and this is the reason we broke up from a month relationship. WTF I dont know what I did wrong I warn to all newbies that kino is again powerful but only if used the right way and not to rush. BTW to any master DJs is there anyway I can fix this relationship? she wants to break up and was pissed even thou i apologized and she wont take any **** from me and doesnt talk to me. How can i bounce back from a break up?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Patrick124

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suck it up. shes a prude anyways, u can do better.
i mean..1 month in, u should be hitting it by now.
 

DJsomeday

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don't listen to her, you apologized so now it's up to her.

I agree/disagree with you at the same time i think there are girls that like the use of kino a lot like slutty girls and stuff and there are girls that don't like it so fast, it depends on the kind of girl and the context IMO.

Good luck! move on!
 

Mjazz

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the problem is that it was in front of her friends, and you probably didnt wait for her to up the ante before you did. Yea she doesnt seem like a very quality girl, either you break it off or just stop caring, o no she stopped talking to you, now your life is ruined because she was the only girl out there
 

Plec07

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Give her a freeze-out and get the jelousy aroused in her. And to be honest I wouldn't be surprised if thats not why she broke it off with you. I think she probably just lost interest and used that as an excuse to break it off with you because she didn't wanna look like a retard saying "I'm too fluctuant with my interest level in guys and right now I'm bored with you."
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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