"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The Brad Pitt Example Nonsense. LMAO!

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I find it hilarious that so many dudes use the Brad Pitt/Denzel examples for every chick they meet and have issues with as if there are loads of Brad Pitt's etc. running around having chicks drop everything to respond back to their texts ASAP, not flake on, drop you as their boyfriend etc.

How many dudes do you know who seemimgly never have problems with chicks and have these harems of the hottest women chasing them and dropping everything to be with them?

I know a few dudes who have a lot of chicks after them but let's get real here. They have problems and complain about chicks to. In REAL LIFE.

Where are all these Brad Pitts and why aren't you naming personal real life examples of them who NEVER have issues with chicks instead of making up something to comfort your bitterness?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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bradd pitt is a god and i want to suck his p3n15 sssssoooooo harrrrrdddddd!
 

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Purefilth said:
bradd pitt is a god and i want to suck his p3n15 sssssoooooo harrrrrdddddd!

Bradd Pitt is dating everyone's girlfriend. All these Bradd Pitts are running around getting every girl on the planet who would NEVER do what they did to the "regular" dudes. (As if everyone is supposed to believe some guy out there is NEVER getting flaked on or dealing with chicks nonsense. And if they "aren't" they MUST be some super mega star. It's laughable.)

Now I know people need to use a specific example to prove their point. But let's get real. How many of these examples are out there in everyday life?

If you or I won the Mega Millions would you bother calling the same chick back?
 

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you know whats funny, i was actually thinking about the brad pitt comparisons just the other night. on one hand i find it funny because i realize its not realistic, its exactly what george costanza was doing by comparing himself to Ted Danson constantly. but on the other hand i like it, because its an easy way to cut through a lot of the nonsense. would she do that to brad pitt?? no?? next!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I use this example a lot, but not in the context you are suggesting. When you are getting phone numbers and trying to make contact, sometimes its necessary to ask the question, ' would (inset chick here) give this lame ass excuse to brad pitt'. If the answer is obviously no, its best to move on. Its that simple. In now way was I suggesting mr pitt wasn't without his share of women problems. Actually, I could care less.
 

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Haha, yeah the Brad Pitt thing is some funny shyt. Basically, it's shorthand for saying "the perfect man of her dreams that she's been waiting for and will always drop you for him".


Besides, I'd rather be mo'phuckin Charlie Sheen any day lol.
 

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synergy1 said:
I use this example a lot, but not in the context you are suggesting. When you are getting phone numbers and trying to make contact, sometimes its necessary to ask the question, ' would (inset chick here) give this lame ass excuse to brad pitt'. If the answer is obviously no, its best to move on. Its that simple. In now way was I suggesting mr pitt wasn't without his share of women problems. Actually, I could care less.

Dudes need to ask themselves just how many "Bradd Pitts" are out there that every woman cannot say no to.

IMO it's just a mental band aid for being butt hurt.
 

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Negative, all of you talking **** on the concept clearly cannot grasp why the comparison is used.

When a woman gives you some bull****, stop and ask yourself would she say this **** to a guy she wants to bone, this is where Matthew Mcwhats his face, Brad Pitt, Denzel and all of those other guys who make women wet come in.


You could rephrase this into, would she tell me she has to take her cat to the neighbor's dog's birthday party if she wants to do me. (IE would she say that **** to Edward Cullen?)

It has actually has nothing to do with the celebrities and everything to do with DETECTING BULL****.
 

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Negative, all of you talking **** on the concept clearly cannot grasp why the comparison is used.

When a woman gives you some bull****, stop and ask yourself would she say this **** to a guy she wants to bone, this is where Matthew Mcwhats his face, Brad Pitt, Denzel and all of those other guys who make women wet come in.


You could rephrase this into, would she tell me she has to take her cat to the neighbor's dog's birthday party if she wants to do me. (IE would she say that **** to Edward Cullen?)

It has actually has nothing to do with the celebrities and everything to do with DETECTING BULL****.

I already am well aware of that. Though dudes use it almost as if "Bradd Pitt" etc. would NEVER have ANY issues with the same chick. It's laughable.

You simply have to keep things Zen like and be indifferent to an extent, not specific outcome dependant on some chick. Not get all emotional and rationalize it as: "Oh she'd NEVER do anything like THAT to Johnny Badazz!"
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Naughty Ninja said:
Bradd Pitt is dating everyone's girlfriend. All these Bradd Pitts are running around getting every girl on the planet who would NEVER do what they did to the "regular" dudes. (As if everyone is supposed to believe some guy out there is NEVER getting flaked on or dealing with chicks nonsense. And if they "aren't" they MUST be some super mega star. It's laughable.)

Now I know people need to use a specific example to prove their point. But let's get real. How many of these examples are out there in everyday life?

If you or I won the Mega Millions would you bother calling the same chick back?
Honestly? the have to be doing something special to get a call from me :crackup: Even if i do #close, theres a huge chance I dont call anyways:crackup: I'm a busy guy - must have not bothered calling 10+ girls in the past 2 months:D
 

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Naughty Ninja said:
Dudes need to ask themselves just how many "Bradd Pitts" are out there that every woman cannot say no to.

IMO it's just a mental band aid for being butt hurt.
For all I know, there could have been no such person as Brad Pitt. It's the IMAGE that he projects. A successful, handsome, built man that is wanted by a large amount of women. If I became rich, got a good body, and rumor was spread around to women that I was a super, great guy, OF COURSE they would want me.

The fact is that every guy I know is lacking in at least one of those departments while the Hollywood actors generally aren't. I mean, if you're 1) an actor you automatically have at least a certain group of women that want you, 2) women assume that you're making bank because you're an actor, 3) you look at least above average to make it on the big screen, and 4) being an actor is socially accepted to be a "high status" which will initially spark interest, then you pretty much will get the choice of AT LEAST 70% of all woman out there.

Or at least you will be able to talk to any woman without getting straight up rejected on sight.
 
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I don't get what the obsession with Brad Pitt is on this forum, sometimes I forget I'm on SoSuave because it seems as though I'm on Loveshack.
 

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True, no one guy no matter how good looking, high status/famous or wealthy he is can get EVERY girl or any girl he wants. But the best looking most attractive guys constitute up to 20% of the male population. These are the guys that most girls want, especially if the girl is attracted herself.

The very best looking guys are a small percentage, probably under 5% of the male population. They get a lot of women and women make things easier for them. Again, no single "5 percenter" can get every girl. Girls have their types. But 5%-20% of the male population is a significant number if they are plate spinning as they can easily do. It's entirely conceivable that if you took 20-30 individual guys (not percent but individuals) that were the best looking and ran the gamut of types ie, Jock, Model, Artist/Musician, some blonde, some dark haired, some really tall,some slightly tall etc they could collectively attract virtualy every female.

It might be possible that even the best looking guys can only pontentially get 5-10% of all females. But being able to attract 5% of HB10-8s is a heck a lot better than only being able to marginally attract ~1% of HB1-5s let alone 0%.
 

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All this comparison with celebrities is total bullshit. For one thing, it only serves to make you feel like shit about yourself because you're not that celebrity. That's fucking stupid!

For another, why do you think hollywood is filled with drunks, drug addicts, abusive relationships, serial infidelities, tragic breakups, and suicides? Everything about them is a caricature of real life and they feel YOUR pain amplified to the extent of their huge egos.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sneevox said:
That attitude is probably most of the reason he got where he is.
yes that and the multiple bloowjobs he gave to David Geffen and other velvet glovers :up: :crackup: :up:
 

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Brad Pitt had all the women problems you guys have until he got famous. Once he was a celebrity the rest was history. Even with his model looks and whatnot, women flaked on him, dumped him, etc just like any other guy.
 

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Nutz said:
Brad Pitt had all the women problems you guys have until he got famous. Once he was a celebrity the rest was history. Even with his model looks and whatnot, women flaked on him, dumped him, etc just like any other guy.
Truth everywhere.

I mean, I have model looks and I'm incredibly manly, but women still flake on me!
:p
 

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Nutz said:
Brad Pitt had all the women problems you guys have until he got famous.

Who in the hell would believe Brad Pitt still doesn't have problems with women since he became famous let alone any other famous person.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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