"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The BPD? ex....

TonyBaloney

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Hey guys, This is a long one!!!!! 3.5 years of mind blowin confusion! A few basics... Love at first site, knew her mother. shes a 9.5 looks, sex 9.5, intelligence 10.. shes very upper class - dad is a lord - shes real exclusive material, and although ive been playin since the 90's with all kinds of girls this one is rare groove.

A few months in and her playa credentials start to show - i feel it and dumped her. She came back and all was good for a while (in hindsight, i never knew what the fook she was up 2 but what u dont know, dont kill ya i guess) she went on hol while we were apart and got banged. When she got back she told me, but i forgave because i was playin like a afc.

A series of highs and lows occurs till she tells me shes movin abroad. She goes and i try friendzone. I have an ill relative who dies just as shes gets there, i get depressed and she just ignores all contact...COLD *****!!!!!

She comes back in summer that year - i hadnt spent a day without thinkin about her. She sees me in a car with a girl and contacts.

For two weeks sex till she goes back. A month of late night calls follows when she goes back THEN NOTHING...AGAIN!!!!!! Fell devastated, depressed, heartbroken....... (think shes bangin a guy out there but what do i know)

Then i meet a new girl...all good till ***** comes back and asks how i am..... i boast about new girl, and she wants to meet, i get my balls out and say na thanks...twice she trys, twice i say na... then a few months later i see her driving (havent not stopped thinking about her, i call her, a few texts and we agree to meet.

Meet and have sex and im hooked. im still with the other new girl.

See them both for 3 months, feelin bad cos the new girl is not a playa and didnt deserve it. Old girlf says theres a chance if i drop the new one. I say not till we worked out thru counselling the problems. We go to it, and she demands that i dump the new (i didnt feel anywhere as attracted to the new one)

I dump the new one AND THE VERY NEXT DAY THE OLD ONE DUMPS ME........

I send one text begging, then send one to say thats it-finished. That was 4 months ago....complete NC.

Let this be advice from a 80+ numbers man to all the young DJ's out there - be guarded with playas. And to all you old hands - WTF was her game???????????? BPD? Sorry its so so long, but as u have seen. This is weird...... PLEASE HELP! Just wanna get any bros insight into this madness!!!!!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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bigneil

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That can happen. I once had 3 girls. Broke up with one, got dumped by the other and when the third one found out (as we were on the way to my house for the night) that she was the only one, she said "don't touch me."

Bad luck (or karma) can start a slump. But after 3.5 years you need to move on. There is no repairing that. People lose their physical attraction to someone after 2 years.
 

TonyBaloney

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Thanks Big

Yeah i get it about not being so attracted after time - but with this girl was always after sex - man, after 3 years we couldnt get enough still.....respect big - but i need more insight...........
 
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