"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The boyfriend cheats..but she sticks around?

Patrick124

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Just recently I've been talking more personally to more and more girls from my school and another school.
One of the girls, she goes to my school, and is a HB 8.5. Shes banging, but has a boyfriend whose a year older, possibly the biggest DJ in our school[hes had sex with jsut abotu ever hott girl].
But she admits, he cheats on her like mad. She stays with him...and knows for a fact that he cheats on her often.

This other girl I met on the Canada trip alst week[600 highschoolers, liek 30 chaperones, lots of beer and bud and snowbaording and sex! yes!]. Shes had a boyfriend for abotu a year now. In canada she saw him making otu with another girl. so they "weren't together" in canada[adn she wanted my ****]. I got her # and then I saw her like once again while on my way to a bar. I probably woulda gotten with ehr..but now we're back and I called eh rup and asked to chill.
"You know i ahve a boyfriend right?" the girl gave ehr boyfriend my #, and told him I've been trying to get with her. the kid left me a message talking sh!t[hes lucky we never met..woulda gotten his a-ss beat. i never caleld him abck cause I dont need to fight him over a stupid b!tch though]
but thats besides the point, he cheated on her, and she still remains loyal.

What the hell is the deal with this? I would NEVER stay with a girl wh cheats/cheated on me. Its completely disrespectful...btu they stay.
Anyone know how this is possible? Do these girls just hve no self confidence and are just THAT insecure?
anyone?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Lotta times girls stay with their guy even if he treats her bad and he cheats because she knows that he can leave her anytime and get another girl with the snap of his fingers
 

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yes they are that insecure. they havent learned that they deserve to have someone treat them as well as they treat that someone.
they havent gotten feed up enough to lay down the law and say " if you cheat- you are dead to me."
dont worry about these young girls, just let them be. time will show them a thing or two about a thing or two and these relationships dont last forever.

when all is said and done, they will want someone who cant get enough of just them.... no cheating required.
 

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Unfortunately, many many women suffer from the lack of self esteem. I don't know why, but for some reason that's how alot of female minds work.

The mystery of whether or not the guy will change is what thrills and intrigues her.
 
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