The Bored Sex - Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity—despite having been taught that they were designed for it

[Ranger]

Women are more honest with their part time lover. One told me, much younger than me...

“Boyfriends and husbands are like fuzzy slippers. They are nice when your feet are cold but most of the time they belong tucked nicely under the bed.”

Serial monogamy is a representation of stability and a safety net. It’s not real.
I was working downtown in Denver a few years back. I took this young guy on a walk with me during lunch to the 16th street mall.

He was kinda broken up about his girlfriend cheating on him. So right out of the blue I would stop beautiful women and ask them this question:

“Of all your friends, married or with boyfriends, what percentage of them have had affairs?”
Not a single one said less than 80%. Every single one of them answered as if it was no big deal.

Serial monogamy is a front and nearly all men are under competition anxiety. They are fuzzy slippers.
That young guys world was never the same.

 

[Ranger]

Ever notice how if a guy mentions her male friends how he gets labeled insecure or somehow less of a man?
That is a total front to put him in line and make him march with the correct attitude for her escapades.

Look, these creatures are fun and interesting but they are incredibly dumb and don’t really have any value. This is the feminine imperative.

“Optimized acquisition of resources (Hypergamy if that’s what you want to call it), with men being clueless”

 

[zekko]

Serial monogamy is a representation of stability and a safety net. It’s not real.

Eh, I don't agree with that. Serial monogamy makes for a good description of branch swinging. And since serial monogamy has to end at some point, there isn't really a safety net. You have to be your own safety net.

But even if 80% of beautiful women are cheating on their husbands, there's still 20% left who aren't. I've always said I'm interested in the exceptional women, not the typical club slvt bar wh0res. If 80% of women are skanks, they're invisible to me, they're not my target demographic.