You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Right but his atittude is cool... And most girls love him, I see a lot of talk about gym and being built, but don´t forget that face is also very important.Alien said:
Ugh...I know you just joined the site and all but you should know by now that fame is infinitely more important than, well pretty much everything. Saying that a celebrity's "face" is very important is like saying that their mother's maiden name is very important.JdelaSilviera said:
Not what I meant at all.... Regarding to looks face is also important, this is just about his comment about being a skinny guy. A guy with a good looking face, will beat any day an ugly muscular beast in the looks section.Just a Shot Away said:
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Life is not a "looks section".JdelaSilviera said:
Actually funny you mention his gay body language. I know a guy who recently came out of the closet, and now he has armys of girls chasing him( he hadnt any before).. women do want what they can´t have.Alien said:
Yes. When you are in a relationship there is always a girl who tries to seduce you ...they take it as a challenge and want to prove themselves that they are more feminine than your girlfriend. Once they get you they lose interest.JdelaSilviera said:
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.