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a valuable post (information wise)
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I think both have their place, if no one dedicated and focused their energies to such a degree, lots of science, knowledge, art, music, would never have been created...Originally posted by Drow
Don't want to go where DeepDish? I have to agree with icepick on this.. Weininger and Nietzsche were hermits.. they are looking at life through a filter instead of experiencing it. Mr. Fingers said it correctly: "The world exists to teach us, and we exist to learn and to grow, and more importantly ENJOY the challenges that life brings us." THAT is our purpose.. what did those philosophers accomplish!? We arn't defined by are thoughts, but rather our ACTIONS. Actions are the only thing that count.. forget the deep-thinking.. thoughts lead nowhere.
This is great stuff! This i get often (above). A game and the AW phenomenon.She automatically assumes a good-looking man is a player who has his ‘pick of the litter’, but if he were to pick her over all those other women, it’d make her feel special. A good-looking man experiences some women initially showing interest in him, only to repel away when he shows back interest; she baited him to test her femininity.
Women rule men. All patriarchy is matriarchy. What does it matter if women rule or the rulers are ruled by the ruled, same difference. The previous President of the United States was blown out of office. Expensive watches, BMWs and Humvees, houses and beachside condos, malls, entire college educations and careers, and of course the entire rubber industry, are motivated by one thing. Gene Simmons once gave insight it is cheaper to buy a prostitute a house than it is to get divorced. Freud may have been right when he opined everything we do in life is somehow motivated by sex. It was Camille Paglia who opined prostitution is man’s escape from womanly domination. We men are the weaker sex and we know it. One disk jockey comically wore a shirt that read “I only DJ for the pússy.”
Yes!SonOfTheMostHigh:
I think both have their place, if no one dedicated and focused their energies to such a degree, lots of science, knowledge, art, music, would never have been created...
You sacrifice one thing for another because all things cost a men and women's time and ability.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Wow .. that's funny .. was told i may have this also. It's like going on and on about information giving them the whole reference on it from nuts to bolts and almost for any topic. Information overload.I happen to have high functioning autism (Asperger Syndrome)
You’re right. Often, it’s annoying when someone I just met tells me I think too much, often after having said just one thing. (ME: “Did you know that half of the dust in Florida comes from the Sahara desert?” THEM: “You think way too much.”) The good part is that with social corrections, such as slowed body language and speech, gazing into the eyes to assess interest in a subject matter and to keep the human connection, we can become compelling conversationalists, not to mention what sustained eye contact does to the ladies.Originally posted by tmpgstx
Wow .. that's funny .. was told i may have this also. It's like going on and on about information giving them the whole reference on it from nuts to bolts and almost for any topic. Information overload.
Doesn't excite the girls much ..lol.
Do I hear you. But how the hell are you supposed to go back to being consciously ignorant of it?Deep Dish said:There is one dark crevasse of woman I refuse to delve into understanding. I see the boundaries of it, the Event Horizon, but it is a blackhole that would consume my soul. I know it is there but I will not gaze into the abyss, I'm much happier off being consciously ignorant of it.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Whether through strategic design of the elite, overpopulation, the suppression of evolution, or some sort of natural long-term oscillation of sexual dynamics (or a combination of the above), it is way fvcked up when one finally figures out that just about every other human they come in contact with is controlled by the feminine imperative.( . )( . ) said:Yeah sure we got our "game" our safe and accessible and logical "game" for a guide to get puxxy but fvck is that even any more than just a particle of ice on the tip of the iceberg?
Should we even be dwelling on this sh!t?
We have ourselves, Deep Dish, Hitori and Tyler Durden exposing bits and pieces but I seriously worry, how much is an acceptable level of knowing before a guy loses it?.
Jesus the thoughts I've been having on women and womens roles and our roles and whats REALLY happening are downright scary (the bits and pieces I think I actually do comprehend ).
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Do I hear you. But how the hell are you supposed to go back to being consciously ignorant of it?
What I think I'm trying to get at is thats not even the tip of the iceberg of what the average joe even realises, yeah we say ignore all that sh!t, feminism the matrix, sh!tty commercials etc etc but it seems to be apart of us no matter what, this is a whole new level of realisation that we really are ruled by puxxy in every aspect of life in every part of everything that we cant even begin to understand and we can say "I'm not I live my own life yada yada " until the cows come home, but I'm thinking that is total nonsense.Call it what you want - the AFC agenda, the Matriarchy, the Matrix, feminism, whatever. That "black hole" that we don't see or fully comprehend is the wavelength that women operate on.
That filter is a really dark one. (This coming from two guys who went crazy.)Weininger and Nietzsche were hermits.. they are looking at life through a filter instead of experiencing it.
Looking through a "dark filter" is in psychiatry called "being depressed"!Call it what you want - the AFC agenda, the Matriarchy, the Matrix, feminism, whatever. That "black hole" that we don't see or fully comprehend is the wavelength that women operate on.
You dont get the post do you, you've just skimmed it blowing it off as bullcrap, step outside your body take a third persons vewi of things happening next time your out in town, when you have down time you'll get what these guys are saying. Its not meant for us as guys to undertand, it'll make you crazy.mr_no said:That filter is a really dark one. (This coming from two guys who went crazy.)
And how about this filter?
Looking through a "dark filter" is in psychiatry called "being depressed"!
And come on. This is the most depressing thread I EVER read in my whole life!
Just think about it! Women - soulless creatures, and the Matrix of an AFC agenda! OMFG are you people depressed or what!?! Here's a tip: if you see a world like this it's time for anti-depressants and therapy. I'M NOT KIDDING!
Women are instinct-driven just as men are. The difference is that they want men, and we want women. They want one alpha, we want several HB's like Hue. In the end we all take what we can get... Women have better social skills, men have better logical skills. We are hunters they are nesters. It's very simple. Just be a man and be true to yourself and what you want in life. You don't have to condemn the whole gender. Sure we are all frustrated about females, but it's not the end of the world.
Don't let the female bastards get you down. Think positive.
There are good women out there. Go look for them.
You see I know this alpha. He gets all the girls he wants 10,15 or 20 years younger than he is. He loves women, and they love him. He's not the brightest guy around, but he's always happy... His secret? A lot of poon... So if you're depressed and "hate" women then you most likely don't get enough of it... Go fish!
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Admittedly, this thread has somewhat of a dark tone to it, but it's a discussion about how society is driven by women - not a bunch of guys lamenting their inability to score. Go to the main forum if you're looking to preach the basics to frustrated chumps.mr_no said:That filter is a really dark one. (This coming from two guys who went crazy.)
And how about this filter?
Looking through a "dark filter" is in psychiatry called "being depressed"!
And come on. This is the most depressing thread I EVER read in my whole life!
Just think about it! Women - soulless creatures, and the Matrix of an AFC agenda! OMFG are you people depressed or what!?! Here's a tip: if you see a world like this it's time for anti-depressants and therapy. I'M NOT KIDDING!
Women are instinct-driven just as men are. The difference is that they want men, and we want women. They want one alpha, we want several HB's like Hue. In the end we all take what we can get... Women have better social skills, men have better logical skills. We are hunters they are nesters. It's very simple. Just be a man and be true to yourself and what you want in life. You don't have to condemn the whole gender. Sure we are all frustrated about females, but it's not the end of the world.
Don't let the female bastards get you down. Think positive.
There are good women out there. Go look for them.
You see I know this alpha. He gets all the girls he wants 10,15 or 20 years younger than he is. He loves women, and they love him. He's not the brightest guy around, but he's always happy... His secret? A lot of poon... So if you're depressed and "hate" women then you most likely don't get enough of it... Go fish!
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.