"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Book of Pook's Teaching's?

DonGiovanni

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So right now im trying to figure out one specific thing that the book of pook doesnt seem to elaborate upon. It may seem really simple to everyone besides me because im new but What Is The Proper Way For A Dj To Appproach A Woman?
the dj bible stresses the fact that WE the DON JUANS are the prize but how does fit in with seeking a woman?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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loveshogun

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I would only give specific advice if you were failing miserably.

If you're taking inner-game to heart and really working on being the best version of you that you can be, all you need to do is be yourself.

Walk up to her and talk to her. Test her interest - see if you can get her to do things, see if she'll dance with you, see if she'll get a drink with you, see if she'll leave with you.

Just do. No real road map needed for the first few steps.

Remember that canned approaches were invented for the folks who have huge anxiety about approaching. Back in the day, I had to rely on them just to open my mouth around girls. Now I'm much less about that, and more about just being me. I learned the rules so that I could free myself of them.

If we wanna get specific, I crack jokes a lot, so one of the first things I do when I talk to a girl is crack jokes.

If she digs, she'll come with me. If not, then we part and we don't have to go through the annoyance of dealing with each other.

There's literally anything you can say or do. Sometimes I like to just walk up to a girl, take her hand, bring her out onto the dance floor. This is after I peacock for maybe a minute (gotta love MJ). 8/10 don't refuse a dance, unless they're disinterested or boring. And if they're disinterested or boring, they saved me some time.

Wow, I didn't realize how much typical PUA technique I actually use when I just go to the club.

On that note, I find that clubs aren't really the best place to meet women if you're interested in seeing them more than twice.
 

teacha

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i don't think you have actually read the book because if you did, you wouldn't be asking this question. just read the 15 lessons, its all there.
 

DonGiovanni

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Yes. I have read the book of pook but not entirely. I have read the 15 lessons and they have impacted my life for the better. but i will go back over and try not to over interpret
 
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