"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The Book of Pook's Teaching's?

DonGiovanni

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So right now im trying to figure out one specific thing that the book of pook doesnt seem to elaborate upon. It may seem really simple to everyone besides me because im new but What Is The Proper Way For A Dj To Appproach A Woman?
the dj bible stresses the fact that WE the DON JUANS are the prize but how does fit in with seeking a woman?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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loveshogun

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I would only give specific advice if you were failing miserably.

If you're taking inner-game to heart and really working on being the best version of you that you can be, all you need to do is be yourself.

Walk up to her and talk to her. Test her interest - see if you can get her to do things, see if she'll dance with you, see if she'll get a drink with you, see if she'll leave with you.

Just do. No real road map needed for the first few steps.

Remember that canned approaches were invented for the folks who have huge anxiety about approaching. Back in the day, I had to rely on them just to open my mouth around girls. Now I'm much less about that, and more about just being me. I learned the rules so that I could free myself of them.

If we wanna get specific, I crack jokes a lot, so one of the first things I do when I talk to a girl is crack jokes.

If she digs, she'll come with me. If not, then we part and we don't have to go through the annoyance of dealing with each other.

There's literally anything you can say or do. Sometimes I like to just walk up to a girl, take her hand, bring her out onto the dance floor. This is after I peacock for maybe a minute (gotta love MJ). 8/10 don't refuse a dance, unless they're disinterested or boring. And if they're disinterested or boring, they saved me some time.

Wow, I didn't realize how much typical PUA technique I actually use when I just go to the club.

On that note, I find that clubs aren't really the best place to meet women if you're interested in seeing them more than twice.
 

teacha

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i don't think you have actually read the book because if you did, you wouldn't be asking this question. just read the 15 lessons, its all there.
 

DonGiovanni

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Yes. I have read the book of pook but not entirely. I have read the 15 lessons and they have impacted my life for the better. but i will go back over and try not to over interpret
 
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