Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
In other words, for guys who don't really need it.Entropy4 said:It's an excellent product. It's very comprehensive on inner game. Although, I wouldn't recommend it to newbies. I'd only recommend it to intermediate and advanced guys -- guys who can go out and get laid off of some cold approaches.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
No, you obviosuly haven't seen it. It's marketed as 'advanced pickup techniques' or something like that. In my opinion it's a lot closer to inner game. Being able to do cold approaches isn't the be all and end all.In other words, for guys who don't really need it.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Yes, I'm thinking about shelling out the $500-$600 because you get more than just the videos.\O/ said:The blueprint decoded is amazing. It's the best i've seen out there. I downloaded it of a torrent somewhere, but if i had the money I'd gladly pay x times the official cost. It's so damn deep. Changes your game on a whole other level.
Get it, preferably buy it. Tyler deserves it.
Google. I don't think it's a good idea to talk about pirating here.sosilky said:Dude it costs 600 dollars! there has to be another way. somebody please PM how your downloading this stuff.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
i think i know how to use it it's just findin places to download from that aren't crap that seems to be hardMaxtro said:Get uTorrent. Read through the instructions on how to use it. It only takes a low level of computer literacy to use.
You would have to be very desperate to pay $600 for that... oh .. yes thats right there are millions of desperate people..sosilky said:Dude it costs 600 dollars! there has to be another way. somebody please PM how your downloading this stuff.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.