“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The BLUEPRINT De-pimpified me!!!!

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Don't know who has gotten a chance to listen to the blueprint on here, but after just one listening I am depimpified.

On first glance this may seem bad, and it may turn out to be bad -- who knows.

Right now though I am feeling kind of liberated.

I no longer feel the need to fit into any kind of box, or to worry about rules.

I no longer feel the need to be indirect or hold back on a sexual vibe.

I feel centered in my own life.

I no longer hold magic bullet acclaim for methods, routines, or lines -- I feel like as long as I am being real, not needy, and not hesitant -- that I am fine.

I now recognize in my interactions how button pushing, no matter how cool the words or skits, is actually confusing and sometimes anti-attractive to women.

I now worry less about being a challenge and am charming when I feel like it while still being a challenge in some way -- whatever way is natural -- at any given point in an interaction.

I am now leading the interactions more -- where as before I felt like the cool lines, the challenge, and displaying the high value was how to lead an interaction -- now i lead it by being in touch with myself and trusting myself to take the correct action for me -- in whatever situation I find myself.

I no longer view sex as a pinnacle for validation in an interaction. I just interact with the person, have fun, and take the right actions and trust it will happen naturally without worrying about whether it does.

Not sure how this stuff will pan out, I feel a lot more free and confident though right now. I seem to still be getting attraction and the extra freedom I feel to not be stuck inside a pimp or player or pua box -- is leading to me making more decisions based on the situation *I* am in and going with how I feel and making sure that the part of myself that I am in touch with and feel is a confident energy -- and it seems to be helping my interactions to become less one demensional and more of what I was trying to get in the first place -- the girl wanting me, not me wanting the girl.
 

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This is the essence of a true Don Juan. It's about being the best you and not letting anyone else change who that best you is. It's about when you walk into a room and your presence says who you are. It's loving yourself, portraying it, and not letting anyone else's thoughts of you change that. As long as you are convinced, they will become convinced, too.
 

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People very often cling to their vision of "pimping", desperately ignoring the fact that they don't have much else going on in their life.

P.S.: what is "the blueprint"? Hopefully not the jay-z album, because there's no way I'm going to listen to that ;)
 

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DonGorgon said:
My life is all about working to pay bills... and chasing women to get sex... simple an boring...
Don, I thought they chased you.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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"My life is all about working to pay bills... and chasing women to get sex... simple an boring..."

Awesome dude!!! so totally cool!! SO wicked and twisted!!! I love it. It's such a great outlook. It just screams kick ass. You my friend -- you kick ass. :up:
 

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Playboy said:
"My life is all about working to pay bills... and chasing women to get sex... simple an boring..."

Awesome dude!!! so totally cool!! SO wicked and twisted!!! I love it. It's such a great outlook. It just screams kick ass. You my friend -- you kick ass. :up:
Nah life kicks my ass but I keep thinking that the next dollar and the next F wil make everything better.....:nervous: :nervous:
 

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DonGorgon said:
Nah life kicks my ass but I keep thinking that the next dollar and the next F wil make everything better.....:nervous: :nervous:
Look at the bright side -- you can still hook up with a bunch of girls despite being jayded -- now thats pretty damn good. I actually have to be in a fun positive light-hearted confident move to pull that stuff off. Of course the BP is helping me with that too. To not resist what is, or the moment. To not need a certain state of mind or state. To not resist.

Anyways cheers to you. :cheer:
 

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krazyboy99 said:
i dunno , i wouldn't trade a positive outlook for all the azz in the world
who says they're mutually exclusive?
 

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Huffman said:
P.S.: what is "the blueprint"? Hopefully not the jay-z album, because there's no way I'm going to listen to that ;)
It is the latest RSD (Real Social Dynamics, run by Tyler Durden) program. It's, like, 20 DVD's. Pretty cool.
 

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DonGorgon said:
True i am a deep person trapped in a shallow world... I do hope for a good woman but all is see are...
Careful bro. I was once like you. I was deep and a great guy but I was too judgemental, I saw women as unappreciative and shallow. Since that is how I saw them I would over react and cause problems and messed stuff up a lot or brough un-needed drama or judgement or heavyness and intensity to situations.

I blamed it on my depth -- on girls being shallow and wasted the last 2 years of my life learning how to be more shallow in the community. hahahahaha!!!! Now I am back on course. Not to the needy reactive judgemental victumized lover with depth that I once was -- but in the direction of a lighthearted, fun, non-judgemental, non-reactive, non-needy, value based, challenging, playful, sexual, lover.

You have 4 girls despite this shallow jayded view. That's good. That is because of WHO you are. It's because of your depth, it's because you know about women from your relationship. Any trouble that you have -- it's because of this jayded view. Drop the need for everyone to think like you do, for labeling people, for judging people, for needing people to see you for who you are. People know your a great guy -- otherwise you wouldnt be having the success you are. They arnt ingrateful -- and you arnt the god of the world either. Lighten up!! And for God sakes stop needing their validation for who you are. KNOW who you are. Trust who you are. Accept who you are. No one else matters, stop making them feel like they need to validate who you are to you.
 

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Playboy said:
Careful bro. I was once like you. I was deep and a great guy but I was too judgemental, I saw women as unappreciative and shallow. Since that is how I saw them I would over react and cause problems and **** **** up.

You have 4 girls despite this shallow jayded view. That's good. That is because of WHO you are. It's because of your depth, it's because you know about women from your relationship. Any trouble that you have -- it's because of this jayded view. Drop the need for everyone to think like you do, for labeling people, for judging people, for needing people to see you for who you are. People know your a great guy -- otherwise you wouldnt be having the success you are.
How dare you psycho analyze me!!!!!!:nervous: :nervous: :nervous: :nervous:
 

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DonGorgon said:
How dare you psycho analyze me!!!!!!:nervous: :nervous: :nervous: :nervous:
You can look at the advice with an open mind and try to find the gold and truth in it -- and wreap great benefits -- or you can blow me off as a random internet poster who has no idea what I am talking about and doesn't know you from a hole in the ground. That choice is yours.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Playboy said:
You can look at the advice with an open mind and try to find the gold and truth in it -- and wreap great benefits -- or you can blow me off as a random internet poster who has no idea what I am talking about and doesn't know you from a hole in the ground. That choice is yours.
Arrrgh now your offering me the red pill or the plue pill...:nervous: :nervous: :nervous: :nervous:
 

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DonGorgon said:
Arrrgh now your offering me the red pill or the plue pill...:nervous: :nervous: :nervous: :nervous:
Nope. You seem to be doing well man, I mean your jugglin 4 girls. Just telling you to use caution with your thinking because it is bound to be coming out in your real life enough to potentially cause you problems, if not now, then down the road. I speak to you from my own experience. Take it for what it's worth broseph.
 

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Playboy said:
Nope. You seem to be doing well man, I mean your jugglin 4 girls. Just telling you to use caution with your thinking because it is bound to be coming out in your real life enough to potentially cause you problems, if not now, then down the road. I speak to you from my own experience. Take it for what it's worth broseph.
Arrrgh you are Jesus christ , son of god arent you????:nervous: :nervous: :nervous: Stop this mind reading at once... guards crussify him...!!!!:crazy: :crazy: :crazy: :crazy:
 

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I'm listening to the audio right now while typing up a school report, which probably isn't the smartest thing to do

on that note, it's awesome. some of the things in here are stuff I've felt but wasn't sure about or couldn't conceptualize. other things are stuff I had no idea about - I can understand how I've fvcked up in the past

total paradigm shift
 

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Playboy, thanks for introducing me to this. I really appreciate it.
 
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