the bitterness of the red pill

[hockeyfreak79]

Have you ever seen the movie Grumpy Old Men? I really don't think it matters if you marry some broad for 15 to 30 years or have multiple LTRs throughout. Eventually we all end up being GRUMPY OLD A** BITTER men.

Now I can speak for all older fellows, I'm sure there are plenty that are happy with there life/situations. I embrace redpill, it is empowering.
Sh*t I swallowed it before I even knew it existed! TRUE STORY

 

[Mr_Stinky]

You're a lot better off than you give yourself credit for.

I too, am familiar with this bitter feeling. I believe it stems from the realization that everything is fleeting. What may be a source of happiness today can very well be a source of pain tomorrow. It's something I have accepted whole-heartldy, and I assure you as a result I take slim to none for granted.

There is no middle man in this game. Taken a step further...there is no love in it either. We're all hunters interested in the same thing...arguably . Continue to go after what you want, continue to secretly fall for the occasional one , and above all continue to enjoy the opposite sex. At any rate, remain steadfast in the skills taught here and through your experiences. The opportunity to act on your feelings will always be present, as I'm sure you know.

Use SS as a tool....not an authoritative figure. Regardless of the statistics, I believe there are some good ones left.



....somewhere. :rock:

I like this Ace9 guy

 

[b305d]

When I was drifting in and out of sleep today, I had a sudden revelation.

We can enjoy the light even while knowing that darkness will come.

Only when we accept reality and its all encompassing truth, then we can find inner peace.

To truly love something, we must let it fly and be free.

Only then can we transcend beyond the selfish love of common beast

I think I finally understand.

The red pill didn't stole love from me.

It taught me a greater kind of love.

I am no longer a beast and I will not love like one.

 

[BeDJ]

I'm not hardcore red pill as a lot of the guys on here. I know what women are capable of and protecting myself is the priority. I share ideas with friends if they seem open about it, otherwise, I keep it to myself. I'm more familiar with being unplugged and understanding Game, I'm certain that they all tie together in some form.

This "bitter" taste you speak of is a typical reaction to something you aren't accustomed to your entire life. You have read the labels on the pill, but it is only when you are exposed to the red pill (affirmation of its existence in your experiences from the world around you) when to feel its effects. Most of the time, there are negative side effects. You'll have to bruise through those effects before you become cleansed.

Similar to working on Game and dating, the red pill should be consumed in moderation. Too much exposure and you'll be heavily burdened which can damage your mental well-being. It's necessary to take a step back, and clear your mind for a bit. Revisit with love ones, close friends and mentally rejuvenate yourself via outdoors or even meditation. Be happy and stay positive.

I allowed Game to consume a lot of me, a lot of my happiness. I didn't like what it did to me and my mindset. It's not who BeDJ is. Stay positive, we're all gonna make it brahs.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

I'm not so much bitter at times, but more annoyed. Ill meet a woman and everything looks great on paper but, eventually, the red flags start flying. It's like I just put my head down and sigh. But, in the past, I may not have passed any $ hit tests, or have recognized those red flags. In those cases, for the long run, I would have been much worse off. I may have had some immediate satisfaction but that would have been short lived, soon to be followed with confusion and despair.

Knowledge is key here. "Know thy enemy" -Sun Tzu. Women aren't necessarily the enemy but they are the ones who we are in a constant struggle with. To know thy enemy you must understand thy enemy. This is what the red pill brings. Understanding. It doesn't bring happiness, but knowledge. And how you take, understand, and apply this knowledge is up to you. Can it bring you happiness and contentment? You bet. But knowledge is power and with it comes responsibility. Can it lead you astray and gives you doubts? Absolutely. Understand not only women but the knowledge itself. As with anything, use this knowledge wisely

 

[Poop1337]

With out red pill awareness you still deal with red pill realities. The red pill realities will be crueler under the blue pill focus. I was in denial of red pill truths in my last LTR and I've paid in time. I'd be married and divorced now if I had been 100% blue pill. Now I'm awake. Freedom is exciting not depressing. You can enjoy women more with your knowledge not less. As for a support network a gf/wife certainly can be apart of that but you have to work within reality.

Get this notion of being the lonely old man out of your head. You can get a wife just have the understanding the game is rigged against you because of the combination of society and her own hypergamous brain. Know she's very emotional and probe to Oprah thinking of keeping it fresh. You wouldn't be a lonely old man. You'd be able to get girls or hookers regularly haha.

Red pill realities comfort me. It also gives me hope when a years long LTR failed. Let's me analyze things better and pick my next LTR better. Gives me realistic expectations. This is all great. Does understanding what a dog is make it's affection any less satisfying? No. Would thinking all dog breeds are the same be helpful. No you could end up with a big dog destroying your apartment or a pug not herding the sheep. Enjoy sluts as sluts and all parties will be happier for it. As for a good girl you still can't pedestalize her or act like a chump and even if you do everything right society is against you so know your risks. This makes you stronger.

I had a serious feeling of dread before I embraced the red pill. I saw the world but couldn't make sense of it. I got dumped by a girl and no joke cried like a *****. No doubt I might have killed myself over my most recent break up but because of the red pill I barely care. I see the mistakes. It's not some spiritual **** you.