The biggest misconception in the game is that looks aren't a big factor in picking up chicks.
Stay with me.
Last night I was riding my motorcycle down to the local gas station to grab an energy bar. I pull up and some UG 2 (being liberal) asks me if I could help her jack her car up because she had a flat. I helped her but really reluctantly. Infact I didn't even stick around to take off the lugnuts.
The point of all this was my state when dealing with this UG. Had it been a hottie my whole state would of been focused on building rapport (Oh, damn I just had a flat two weeks ago) then I would shift into some attraction building and since chicks dig bikes I would of offered her a ride and built up some kino.
So the point of all this is: Look at your own mental state when dealing with HB's vs. UG's, Women also go through the same states when dealing with studs vs. duds. Now a top notch PUA might be able to overcome his bad looks or out of shapeness with some excellent game, or some social proof like money, fame, or cars. But if you are Joe Blow and looking really sloppy trying to sarge a chick w/o top notch game is going to result in failure more times than not.
Your whole focus on sarging should be to constantly be self analysis. Look at yourself in the mirror every morning and try to pick aprart your flaws and then work on improving them. Most of them can be fixed with a little work or money i.e. dental or acne probs.
Sooner or later you will be entering studsville and then your main concern will be keeping track of all the numbers and emails you are getting. I would suggest setting up some kind of database in your PC and then write a few notes by the chicks name and document what she can do to make your life better. If she is GF material go ahead and document it. If she has a great social circle go ahead and document it. You follow me? After a few months of sarging your chick database should be getting pretty full and you can tone down the sarging a little and use your database as a means of hooking up, getting a LTR, having fun. etc etc.
Expanding your SOCIAL CIRCLE - I haven't heard alot of talk on this subject but I feel it is one of the most important and easy things to do. For instance the other night I was playing ball in this local college gym. Just shooting some hoops. Now I don't attend there but Its close to my house and offers cheap memberships so I go. Anyways, I was thinking about expanding my social network and got in a pickup game with a bunch of frat boys. We building some rapport and I ask them what parties are coming up and they tell me a couple and how their is tons of hotties etc etc. etc. So now I'll have access to tons of hot college chicks just from playing baskeball. Same thing happened with some black dudes. I networked with them, now I have access to a pipeline full of black girls. IT'S that freaking easy. Now you can go to these parties, hangout sessions or bars with these people who you would otherwise have no access to.
All you have to do is ask? Hey, is their any parties going on this weekend.
I used baskeball as an example. You can use any of your hobbies as a way to expand your social circle. It makes approaching much more easy. Plus I don't like the idea of trying to sarge club chicks. The same kind of chick that has been shared by more dudes than a rental car. Clubs for me are just a chill spot. I try not to sarge in clubs very much.
Thats all I have for now.
Stay with me.
Last night I was riding my motorcycle down to the local gas station to grab an energy bar. I pull up and some UG 2 (being liberal) asks me if I could help her jack her car up because she had a flat. I helped her but really reluctantly. Infact I didn't even stick around to take off the lugnuts.
The point of all this was my state when dealing with this UG. Had it been a hottie my whole state would of been focused on building rapport (Oh, damn I just had a flat two weeks ago) then I would shift into some attraction building and since chicks dig bikes I would of offered her a ride and built up some kino.
So the point of all this is: Look at your own mental state when dealing with HB's vs. UG's, Women also go through the same states when dealing with studs vs. duds. Now a top notch PUA might be able to overcome his bad looks or out of shapeness with some excellent game, or some social proof like money, fame, or cars. But if you are Joe Blow and looking really sloppy trying to sarge a chick w/o top notch game is going to result in failure more times than not.
Your whole focus on sarging should be to constantly be self analysis. Look at yourself in the mirror every morning and try to pick aprart your flaws and then work on improving them. Most of them can be fixed with a little work or money i.e. dental or acne probs.
Sooner or later you will be entering studsville and then your main concern will be keeping track of all the numbers and emails you are getting. I would suggest setting up some kind of database in your PC and then write a few notes by the chicks name and document what she can do to make your life better. If she is GF material go ahead and document it. If she has a great social circle go ahead and document it. You follow me? After a few months of sarging your chick database should be getting pretty full and you can tone down the sarging a little and use your database as a means of hooking up, getting a LTR, having fun. etc etc.
Expanding your SOCIAL CIRCLE - I haven't heard alot of talk on this subject but I feel it is one of the most important and easy things to do. For instance the other night I was playing ball in this local college gym. Just shooting some hoops. Now I don't attend there but Its close to my house and offers cheap memberships so I go. Anyways, I was thinking about expanding my social network and got in a pickup game with a bunch of frat boys. We building some rapport and I ask them what parties are coming up and they tell me a couple and how their is tons of hotties etc etc. etc. So now I'll have access to tons of hot college chicks just from playing baskeball. Same thing happened with some black dudes. I networked with them, now I have access to a pipeline full of black girls. IT'S that freaking easy. Now you can go to these parties, hangout sessions or bars with these people who you would otherwise have no access to.
All you have to do is ask? Hey, is their any parties going on this weekend.
I used baskeball as an example. You can use any of your hobbies as a way to expand your social circle. It makes approaching much more easy. Plus I don't like the idea of trying to sarge club chicks. The same kind of chick that has been shared by more dudes than a rental car. Clubs for me are just a chill spot. I try not to sarge in clubs very much.
Thats all I have for now.
