"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The BIGGEST ISSUE in the world today

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To me terrorism, the environment and high oil prices are all very big issues. However, the biggest issue today is the destruction that feminism is having on the social fabric of the western world

Lets face it. There are many reasons for a man not to get married. He will likely not get sex, his wife will spend all his money that he makes, his wife can leave him and then take 50%+ of his assets, his wife views his work as his spare time so he comes home from and has to do all the housework etc The only enjoyment a married man has out of life is when he goes on his once a year boys weekend away

Lets also face some facts. Women on average have an IQ 4-5 points lower than men, women are physically weaker than men, women do not have strong temporaments, men are better at business than women. What does this tell you? Women were put on this Earth to reproduce and look after the home and men were put on this world to hunt and gather for the family

Unfortunately, there is nothing we can do about the calamity. So where I am getting to with this post? There are places in the world where feminism has not infiltrated. By way of example, in rural parts of Eastern Europe, beautiful women behave like women should and make great wives. Question is what happens when you bring one of these women to a western country. Do they instantly become Americanised (Australianised for me)?

Please post experiences of any men you know that have imported brides and what has happened
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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War Against Betaism

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I won't get into the subject feminism and the role they should take in this world, but I do agree that most problems in male relationships involve women. It's really not their faults, but it is ruining society.
 

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I suggest never thinking about this topic again. That should increase your overall life satisfaction by double.
 

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Slowly the concept of marriage will become valueless and there will be a stray period.

Once the period lapses, i believe Marriage will regain its former glory.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ZenGodMod said:
Slowly the concept of marriage will become valueless and there will be a stray period.

Once the period lapses, i believe Marriage will regain its former glory.
Sort of like the "out of chaos will come order" argument. I think this is valid and historically seems to be the case, i.e., societies collapse because they've lost their way and renew again in a more proper order. Well probably nothing that dramatic will happen in modern times, but I agree with you that there will be some realignment. The only problem is it'll be so long in happening that it won't have much effect on people today.
 

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Yeh, I do agree with you guys. This is part of some sort of social cycle and will eventually correct itself; albeit too late for us

And it is a symptom of capitalism as well

In the mean time, I wonder how guys have gone with women from the eastern european countryside. Maybe some sort of arbitrage available?
 

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It's sad really, simply because there is a part in me somewhere that wants to believe marriage would be great.

But then I know. It does not work in the world today.

Like the sublime tune ball and chain

Marriage doesn't work in the world to day
It's an Institution that is in decay, and If I had some love to portray...

I could surely find another way!
 

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seasonedplayer said:
In the mean time, I wonder how guys have gone with women from the eastern european countryside. Maybe some sort of arbitrage available?
I've travelled to Eastern Europe the last 7 years to a small village that my father is from. It is like night and day from the western, feminized culture we are suffering in every day. It is a more paternal culture where family and tradition are the focal points. If I was to marry I would certainly pick a girl from that part of the world. My chances of happiness would be much better if I choose wisely.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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