"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The big party/Frat party

Kowboysup

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My first post here so go easy on me.

I have pretty good to very good success at a small party where I can actually talk to a girl and use some C/F etc.

My problem is that when I go to a big party like at a local frat, you can't even do that. For one thing it's loud as hell, and there are guys everywhere that are messing you up, butting in and stuff. Any reccomendations?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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GropeDope

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Be careful at frat parties. If you happen to hit on one of the frat f*cker's b!tches and they get all jealous like they always do, you better have a bunch of your boys with you or some Bruce Lee type sh!t for the squad of frat fags that will surround you to beat your ass.

I've seen it happen once before, and the dude ended up going to the hospital to be treated for broken ribs. Not pretty.
 

TubularBells28

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Frat guys are so friggin annoying.

Hopefully they will be too drunk to do anything.
 

Kowboysup

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I'm not really worried about the frat guys. I've usually got a lot of people there, it's an ivy league school so they are gay, and i'm kinda big. They've never been a problem even when i'm drunk and yelling **** about their school haha.
 

Shiftkey

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Invite girls just outside for fresh air where it's a little quieter. I'd also recommend keeping the alcohol consumption to a minimum.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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ShizamDaMan

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Just pick a girl at the party, chat her up for more than 10 minutes, then suggest that you two "get out of there." If she digs you, then she'll leave. If not, she'll stay and then you rinse and repeat with a different girl.

To isolate is to get her right where you want her. It's not like girls that frequent frat houses are bastions of moral integrity :)
 

superchristx

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at a frat party everybody is DRUNK! if you can stay sober you will rise so far above the competition it's not even funny. All the same, the scene is such a mindless meatmarket that if your game is too intellectual/verbal it will get you nowhere. i always hated that scene, but participated during college because it was the thing to do. I won't waste another second of my life at parties like that.
 

LeviathanIYG

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Originally posted by Kowboysup
My first post here so go easy on me.

I have pretty good to very good success at a small party where I can actually talk to a girl and use some C/F etc.

My problem is that when I go to a big party like at a local frat, you can't even do that. For one thing it's loud as hell, and there are guys everywhere that are messing you up, butting in and stuff. Any reccomendations?
When there is to much noise at the party your main goal should be to.....

ISOLATE!!!


This basically means get her alone and away from her friends/noise ect.

How do you ISOLATE?

I’m glad you asked man..... It’s easy GET HER DRUNK

Jking

But seriously have you ever heard that

7% of all communication is verbal?

Well it's true so if you look at it that way the noise doesn't really affect you that much.

Just use the other 93% to get your point across.

The main one is body language

Read up on body language

When you exude manliness through your body language isolating girls will become 10x easier.

If you want serious help with body language PM me

As for the jealous guys, scope out your target girl first to make sure she is not with the frat guys.

Ohhh and liek that guy said ^
STAY SOBER
 
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