"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Big O

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i m shagging this gf of mine it s all going well i lick i finger her so the tension mounts i can feel she s going to orgasm then suddenly she removes my finger she can t continue
i ve been acting softly making sure that i don t hurt her or anything

what do you think is going on?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Increase her comfort level

Most likely she has anxiety towards completely letting go with you, or going over the point of no return.

Increase her comfort level towards you, last for longer, and maybe try a vibe with you together.

Good luck!!!
 

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The first (few) times a woman approaches a real O, they sometimes fight it. I had a woman tell me that the impending loss of control is confusing and a bit scary.

Lead her through it. You'll both be glad you did.
 
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