"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The Big O

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i m shagging this gf of mine it s all going well i lick i finger her so the tension mounts i can feel she s going to orgasm then suddenly she removes my finger she can t continue
i ve been acting softly making sure that i don t hurt her or anything

what do you think is going on?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Increase her comfort level

Most likely she has anxiety towards completely letting go with you, or going over the point of no return.

Increase her comfort level towards you, last for longer, and maybe try a vibe with you together.

Good luck!!!
 
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The first (few) times a woman approaches a real O, they sometimes fight it. I had a woman tell me that the impending loss of control is confusing and a bit scary.

Lead her through it. You'll both be glad you did.
 
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