"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The big do's and don't topic in dating !

TheGambino

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Ok guys it's time to refresh everyone's minds again. I find myself being attracting to loads of women everyday and I make use of that when I am clubbing or going out in the evenings because daygame is not really my thing! I also find myself losing women who were initally attracted but got disinterested during a date, probably because of something I said that got them off. Ofcourse a lot stay around but some potential hotties drip off and I lose the chance of even f*cking sometimes. I am still too needy after all those years, I can't seem to totally switch it off.

So let's wake everyone up with a big Do's and Don't list. We made loads of those on Sosuave already but 2018 is a new year with social media and loads of competition for us as men so put in whatever you SHOULD say and DO on a first/second/third date or encounter and what you defenitley SHOULD NOT DO AND SAY.

We have to turn it up a notch to stay a head of other guys, women are on social media and they get loads of attention everyday. A 5 will feel like she deserves a 9 nowadays so a 9 expects a Don Juan like us. Live it, this thread should be helping all of us!

I'll start with 5 DO's in my opinion.

- Be bold, flirty and cexual. The moment that she feels like your an open guy who is not ashamed of talking about naughty cex, that's the moment when she will open up too if she trusts you. She will clear up her whole dirty mind too, because every girl has a dirty mind but stores it away for the right guy, and well that guy is you!
- Make deep eye contact, ALWAYS. It shows confidence, cexuality, and interest in her as a person. It also shows dominance.
- Listen to her and be active listener by repeating what she says and actually giving a f*ck about her thoughts.
- Kino, touch her to make her comfortable with you.
- Always make out on the first date.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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jacketrunner

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I'd add focus your text interactions on meeting up early on, rather than wasting time building rapport through text.
 
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