"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Depends on where in NY. With all the gentrification in NYC, the betas are all over the place. I like Chicago. Reminds me of NYC before all of the soy boys. I miss the 90's
Chicago is a rough but beautiful city, winters suck though
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Liberals are Covert racists, I'm getting a concealed carry soon. It's hard to start a lot of things in Chicago especially opening up a completely new bar
 

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It sometimes baffles me that the US is divided along leftist and rightist.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Liberals are Covert racists, I'm getting a concealed carry soon. It's hard to start a lot of things in Chicago especially opening up a completely new bar
I can imagine. Been there many moons ago. The NYPD does the best to try and block your application. I just finally hired a 2nd amendment lawyer to assist with my license; as well as my employees who need it. It was much smoother through the attorney route. It's not cheap, but they have connections. I am sure it's similar in Chicagoland too.
 

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It sometimes baffles me that the US is divided along leftist and rightist.
Comes down to how they are raised. The democrats, in general, are not the same as the democrats from 20 years ago. Many get elected by bribing voters and giving them free crap that the public funds cannot afford. Then, they just issue bonds and kick the can down the road. Not saying the conservatives are better, as they bulk up in other areas. There needs to be a happy medium where we can meet in the middle. With the socialists and communists growing in the democratic party; that is going to be a challenge. Once they take away the free crap and Kool-Aid, the liberals will riot. When you have nothing to lose, might as well go for broke.
 

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Comes down to how they are raised. The democrats, in general, are not the same as the democrats from 20 years ago. Many get elected by bribing voters and giving them free crap that the public funds cannot afford. Then, they just issue bonds and kick the can down the road. Not saying the conservatives are better, as they bulk up in other areas. There needs to be a happy medium where we can meet in the middle. With the socialists and communists growing in the democratic party; that is going to be a challenge. Once they take away the free crap and Kool-Aid, the liberals will riot. When you have nothing to lose, might as well go for broke.
You guys would do well to create another party that focuses on politics of development.

Such a waste going in one extreme to another.
 

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Yea, I am aware. The liberals ruined most of it
This is exactly the kind of tribal thinking that the bankers, big business, wealthy plutocrats and their friends and agents in the American state and here in the EU and national governments want to foster. Don't look at corruption as a phenomenon in of itself and a rigged, destructive system..... don't even look at other areas of the country where the other tribe is doing just as poorly or worse. Just blame the other tribe's aspirations, but while doing so don't so much as open a wikipedia page about words like "socialism" to learn what a "conservative" or "liberal" or "socialist" actually is, what the varieties are and what the histories are. Just use them like your anti-thinking tanks, business-managed academia, corporate media, and state schooling told you to. And blame students, pensioners, immigrants, poor people, foreign countries, young people, old people, men, feminism, muslims, white people, black people...
 
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lol wow my thread here turned into politics.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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You guys would do well to create another party that focuses on politics of development.

Such a waste going in one extreme to another.
Only a select few have the money and influence to make a change like this. They are coming into the political forum; albiet slowly. You been to be worth hundreds of millions of dollars or more in or to stay independent and not accept PAC money. You have a Pres. Trump, Mayor Michael Bloomberg, Mark Zuckerberg (will be awhile until things blow over on Facebook), Meg Whitman, and Mark Cuban all entering politics and do not need public money. Though, it doesn't mean they'd win. Linda McMahon, wife of billionaire Vince McMahon spent 50 million or so to run for governor of CT as well as Senator, but lost. Prob. because of her cold and strict personality, but Bloomberg and Cuban are likable, so they have a chance. I think Zuckerberg can move the needle as well; maybe 2024 or 2028. However, with all of that money, comes power, and power corrupts even the Nobelist of people.


This is exactly the kind of tribal thinking that the bankers, big business, wealthy plutocrats and their friends and agents in the American state and here in the EU and national governments want to foster. Don't look at corruption as a phenomenon in of itself and a rigged, destructive system..... don't even look at other areas of the country where the other tribe is doing just as poorly or worse. Just blame the other tribe's aspirations, but while doing so don't so much as open a wikipedia page about words like "socialism" to learn what a "conservative" or "liberal" or "socialist" actually is, what the varieties are and what the histories are. And blame students, pensioners, immigrants, poor people, foreign countries, young people, old people, men, feminism, muslims, white people, black people...

It is there fault as they are the one's who elected the people in power. Look at what Rahm Emmanuel did to Chicago. Or what de Blasio did to NYC. Sorry, the populist voted these socialist clowns in, and it ruined or is ruining two great cities. Chicago is circling bankruptcy, and de Blasio is basically undoing everything Gulliani and Bloomberg did to make the city great.
 

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Agreed, we're veering off topic. Let's stick to the OP's original thread.
Nah it's all good. I haven't been to the gym yet to report on anything but plan to at the end of this week coming up.
 

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Only a select few have the money and influence to make a change like this. They are coming into the political forum; albiet slowly. You been to be worth hundreds of millions of dollars or more in or to stay independent and not accept PAC money. You have a Pres. Trump, Mayor Michael Bloomberg, Mark Zuckerberg (will be awhile until things blow over on Facebook), Meg Whitman, and Mark Cuban all entering politics and do not need public money. Though, it doesn't mean they'd win. Linda McMahon, wife of billionaire Vince McMahon spent 50 million or so to run for governor of CT as well as Senator, but lost. Prob. because of her cold and strict personality, but Bloomberg and Cuban are likable, so they have a chance. I think Zuckerberg can move the needle as well; maybe 2024 or 2028. However, with all of that money, comes power, and power corrupts even the Nobelist of people.





It is there fault as they are the one's who elected the people in power. Look at what Rahm Emmanuel did to Chicago. Or what de Blasio did to NYC. Sorry, the populist voted these socialist clowns in, and it ruined or is ruining two great cities. Chicago is circling bankruptcy, and de Blasio is basically undoing everything Gulliani and Bloomberg did to make the city great.
Take Elon Musk to propel America further.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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LOL. Yea, he's surely the man to follow with female relationships. The man is brilliant, but he's been cucked with all of his ex-wives and Amanda Heard..
I think he got bored with them and soft-dismissed them 1st, they reverted to cucking him as their only tool left to manipulate.

He'll bounce back and get another beauty. Repeat and cycle.

The man has vision haha
 

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lol wow my thread here turned into politics.
I just find it very funny but even more so sad that America, the heartland of neoliberal capitalism with a massive international state machine to make sure it's imposed on the rest of the world with lobbying, media propaganda, financial war, bombings, invasions, coups, assassination campaigns and funding of terrorist paramilitaries is also home to the largest share of people who think that the American state itself is engaged in a "socialist" plot against them. America is about as close to being a socialist country as we are to the Andromeda galaxy and has only moved to the right economically since Eisenhower, who today would be regarded as a leftist radical like the social democratic Bernie Sanders is seen as.

If I mention the term "economic democracy" to Americans, I will just get slack-jawed stares and confused blinks back, while at the same time they have been taught to think neoliberal wall street shills like Obama are socialist. In this way you really have to commend the people who run the American society for this in the fashion of Edward Bernays, they have the good cop-bad cop system with the two political parties down to a science perhaps to a higher degree than anywhere else. They really know what they're doing with shaping peoples' brains and Overton window to prevent thought and prevent perception of reality other than in the way they like.
 
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The narratives being played out on the Alpha/Beta dichotomy is being over blown out of proportion.

There's only Dominant and Passive men.

And there's geniuses in both traits.
 

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I think he got bored with them and soft-dismissed them 1st, they reverted to cucking him as their only tool left to manipulate.

He'll bounce back and get another beauty. Repeat and cycle.

The man has vision haha
Perhaps, but he gave each of them a lot of dough.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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