"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The best way to go about getting the girl to **** you.

Best place to set or venture out to approach a woman?

  • Bars n' Clubs or nighttime

    Votes: 6 37.5%
  • Every non-nightlife place OR daytime

    Votes: 10 62.5%

  • Total voters
    16

Poonani Maker

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For YOU, what has been the most successful WAY to get a girl into bed? The bar and clubs (where she knows why you are there) OR every place else (where she may or may not know why you are there standing with her)?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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speakeasy

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Well, it helps if she likes you more than you like her. Once you get to that point it's a cakewalk.
 

FoolsCause

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For me, it's not the nightclubs because I'm quiet and have tinnitus, a double-handicap anywhere with some background noise. It's almost impossible for me to have any conversation at a nightclub.
 

lookyoung

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In coldapproaching bars and nightclubs are king for me. I have fvcked quite a few girls that i have met at nightclubs and bars. Coldapproaches in the daytime from my experiences have a low success rate.

BARS AND NIGHTCLUBS ALL THE WAY
 

ConantheLibertarian

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I get what this topic is about, but the place should have no bearing on what your intentions are, or what she thinks your intentions are. You can be in any number of places, but there's 1 constant: you. You should make it known why you're approaching, wherever it is. To answer though, I've had as much luck in any place I've been. I probably like daytime approaches more, less pressure and I'm more in my element, and you also catch people in theirs. There's a totally different mindset in bars and clubs, and undestandably so.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Serialized3

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To just get straight up laid? Bars and clubs. Everybody knows what everybody else is there for, plus the alcohol is flowing.
 

Cash37

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It seems that the consensus is clubs. I want to add, stay away from clubs that a lot of young women attend. Most of them are attention *****s "just dancing with their girls".
 
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