"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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frivolousz21

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do the BOOTCAMP!

I cannot stress this enuf...

just trying and failing and trying again on that thing...will take you places with women you will never imagine..

if you dont want to do it alone..get some otehr emails or aim's off here and keep tabs everyday so you are all doing it.

trust me....make it to week 5 or 6..and you wont only feel better..you will have women
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Nice Guy is Gone

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I'll be doing the bootcamp within the next couple of weeks--Right now, I just got so much going on that I can't committ to that just yet, but in time, I'll be further than some of y'all.
 

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I don't know what the bootcamp is, but I do know if you try to force things and do things all at once when you're not ready, you will fail. Take small steps.
 

The Nice Guy is Gone

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Originally posted by pimpfromdayone
I don't know what the bootcamp is, but I do know if you try to force things and do things all at once when you're not ready, you will fail. Take small steps.
Click on the DJ Bible at the top of the screen, and you scroll down, and you will find a link to the Boot Camp. I just read a little bit of it today, and it is week by week taking small steps each week until you are getting the results you want. Look it up. Oh, and next time you're not sure of something, do a search on it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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pimpfromdayone

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Originally posted by The Nice Guy is Gone
Click on the DJ Bible at the top of the screen, and you scroll down, and you will find a link to the Boot Camp. I just read a little bit of it today, and it is week by week taking small steps each week until you are getting the results you want. Look it up. Oh, and next time you're not sure of something, do a search on it.
Yeah, I would have if I really cared.
 

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Originally posted by Joe The Homophobe
most newbiezzis fear the bootcamp more than saying hi to a girl.
Heh heh.

I'll be starting it soon.
 
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