"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The best way to end a LTR

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I've been dating the same girl for about 2 years now. We were close, we were comfortable with each other, we had fun. I took her viriginity and she was my first major long-lasting relationship.

Recently, though, i was facing a dilemna. I'm planning to study abroad next semester, and our relationship was casual enough that we had mutually agreed to consider my time out of the country 'off' time for both of us.

BUT, I felt that our relationship had pretty much run its course, and I knew things would never be the same after I got back, and I told her so. Can you guess her response?:

"Oh yeah, I know. Look, why don't we keep going out until you leave, and then when you get back we can just be friends with benefits."

What did I do right? Hell if I know
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Demon said:
The sex was good. That's what you did right. But that's probably all that was good.
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Precisely. What you think you did "right" was probably just not being a totally great partner in the relationship. That's expected though since you already thought it was dismal.

But good job for getting a FB!
 
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'Dismal'? What are you people talking about. It was a veyr good relationship, but two years is a long time. If you're not getting married, there's a limit, no?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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