"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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the best way to do CRUNCHES

sandinista

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Hey guys. What is the best technique to do crunches?

Atm i'm doing 4 sets of 30, twice a day. 1 set in the afternoon, & 1 set in the evening.

I'm not sure if this is the best way to do it though. On the 1st set i can feel my abs aching.. it's almost painful. But for the next sets i don't really feel anything.

Also, i read somewhere (might be here infact) that doing crunches to the side is pointless & you should just so them straight. Is this right?

I'd appreciate your help on this. thanks in advance.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DIESEL

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the best way to do straight crunches is to do a 5-second isometric hold at the "crunch" part of the movement.

Do it this way, then see if you can do 4 sets of 30.

This way is much more effective and better than doing 50,000 reps of crunches..
 

NMMWCR

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In my experience, it isn't how many crunches you do or how long you hold them. It's all about how tightly you contract the muscle. You have to really squeeze the sh1t out of it like you are trying to juice grapes by squeezing them in your navel.
 

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My biggest problem doing crunches was that my lower back would get sore,so I started doing them ontop of a bed with a fluffy conforter underneath...I can do so many that my stomach goes sorta numb and i can't feel any pain...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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