"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The best vent for your emotions here.

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I'll tell you all a secret. If you're looking for a great way to vent your emotions wether they are happy or sad, do this: buy an electric guitar a learn the blues. That's all there is to it. Sounds crazy? Read on. I remember the day my guitar teacher handed me a sheet with the basic blues scales in E minor together with a backing track CD. I sat down and played around with it, and within 15 minutes i got the hang of the first box position. I learned the rest of the scale within a month. It isn't that hard actually to learn the basics of electric guitar. Once you know it, you can really put some emotion in your guitar. Because that's what blues just is: emotion in sound form.

I'm sure you all have seen some old Hendrix footage at some point in your life (and if you didn't i pity you). You see all these expressions on his face, that's raw emotion right there. Take a listen here if you want to see what i mean. One of the best recordings ever, notice the subtileity of it and the huge climax afterwards. Or listen to this one, also very good stuff..

When i'm happy i pick up the guitar i play the blues and it makes me even happier. When i'm sad i pick up the guitar i play the blues, and it cheers me up that my sadness can help create something beautiful. My guitar is my voice and i can completely lose myself in it. If you listen closely to the classic blues players you can just hear their pain in their playing, or their happyness.


Another funny note is that you can hear wether a guitar player has blues roots or not, no matter how hard-rocking they are. You know Guns 'n Roses? That band that sounded like they want to rip your face off and that was notorious for wrecking hotel rooms, appearing piss-drunk on live EMA awards, having sex orgies with countless groupies after shows and even getting fans killed at shows. They got huge partly because of their lead guitar player, who played with feeling instead of turbospeed that was popular in the eighties era. And he wasn't the fastest by a mile, yet he's the only name most people remember from the eighties era, or from the last 25 years really: Slash. ... and you can hear where he's coming from. That's pure Blues, and even his agressive and fast solo's are drowned in it. Now to contrast: Dragonforce (skip to 3.20). Amazing speeds never seen before. But really, who's more badass here? And who of you heard of this band in the first place, even though they are technically one of the bests band ever?


A guitar starter kit costs maybe 100 bucks, so what are you still doing here? Plus, chicks dig dudes with guitars.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i play the piano rather than the guitar, but i need to go ahead and learn the guitar before too long
 

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This is good advice. I have 3 guitars now (1 acoustic, 2 electric) and I play them whenever I can. Music always cheers me up when I'm down, and amplifies my good moods when I have them.

I've been playing for almost 2 years now, but I don't have any experience with playing blues. I like the blues, but I don't even know where I would get information on it. Where do you go?
 

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I prefer drums

my hi-hats are dented from all the venting
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm a drummer by trade, but whenever I need to vent an emotion I pick up my acoustic guitar and write a song. The only good thing about a break-up is that's the only time I write good songs. I can't write for crap when I'm happy, but when I'm sad the words just happen.
 

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that's awesome there are a lot of musicians on this board. Yeah I really think art is a good way to channel the energy - even if its negative energy.

I started playing the piano when I was 7, picked up drums in junior high. Tried guitar and sax but gave up. Now in my spare time I play around w/ my MPC and my Roland MV-8800.
 

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young_gun said:
This is good advice. I have 3 guitars now (1 acoustic, 2 electric) and I play them whenever I can. Music always cheers me up when I'm down, and amplifies my good moods when I have them.

I've been playing for almost 2 years now, but I don't have any experience with playing blues. I like the blues, but I don't even know where I would get information on it. Where do you go?
This is for E minor blues:

Pattern 1 & 2
Pattern 2 & 3
Pattern 3 & 4
Pattern 4 & 5
Pattern 5 & 6
Complete scale

Above here they are broken up in different patters for easy learning.

Got it from this exlcellent site.

Here are two backing tracks in E minor:
Track 1
Track 2

Put them on and play with the patterns in the Jpegs. Do bends and slides, you'll be suprised how cool it sounds.

Once you have these scales down you have learned the first step in learning how to play guitar solo's.
 

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i LOVE music. i play guitar as well and i love to play the blues. stuff like zeppelin, stevie ray vaughan, eric clapton all who are great blues musicians. and hendrix,slash, and a whole lot more. i've only been playing for 1.5 years, but im going to practice that e minor stuff with the backing tracks. i'm use to playing blues in a.
 

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just take drugs and drink alcahol

im joking, i like to draw that usually puts me in the right place... or going to the gym, that is awesome for the mind
Drugs and alcohol are a perfect combination with making music.

i LOVE music. i play guitar as well and i love to play the blues. stuff like zeppelin, stevie ray vaughan, eric clapton all who are great blues musicians. and hendrix,slash, and a whole lot more. i've only been playing for 1.5 years, but im going to practice that e minor stuff with the backing tracks. i'm use to playing blues in a.
Learn them in all keys and you'll be able to jam along with all your favorite tunes. After learning that, focus on the major keys. Then combine them with each other. That is actually the secret all the great lead players use. You'll end up with almost a chronomatic scale so you'll need a bit of feeling for it to make it work. But once you got that, man it's awesome. If you look at sheet music you see all the heroes like Page, Slash and other hard rockers do that all the time.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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