"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SuPaF1y

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easy quick note i want to make,

1. Find a "SUPER" rolemodel

example: the person you would LOVE to be.

2. Visualize yourself as that person and do what he would do in the situations you are in.

3. Think as that person

4. Do what that person does

ect ect ect


and there you have it.


You cant and wont feel bad or doing somthing wrong because that "person" you picked knows what to do in the situation you are in so you know.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Desdinova

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Huh??

So, instead of becoming "The Prize", your role model becomes "The Prize" while you sit there in his shadow.

Instead of becoming someone else, why not improve who you are and become the best damn YOU that you can be?
 
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