the BEST POSSIBLE WAY to find the girl of your dreams!!

[skip2mylou781]

first, let me state the advice, and then ill give a couple of quick examples about myself to validate the advice.

ADVICE: Whether you are looking for the best sex u ever had, or you are looking for the girl of ur dreams who u will fall in love with and marry, u need to keep in mind that to increase ur chances of finding her, u NEED TO APPROACH AND TRY AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE!!!

What do I mean? I mean that if u see 20 girls in 1 day that u just druel over from 10 ft away, id say theres a good chance that u wouldnt mind fvcking them or even fallin in love with them, correct? so what do u do u lowlife afc???? u just watch and u watch ur opportunity for love/sex walk rite by u!!!!! heres what u SHOULD do - go talk, go try, go approach, go do anything to make sure that that HB10 ISNT the girl of ur dreams and ISNT the girl u COULD HAVE BEEN fvcking, and make sure u dont regret not going up to her an hour later, czu i kno ALL OF U have had this situation before where ud be saying to urself "shytt i shoulda talked to her, if she liked me, we coulda sooooo hit it off!!!!"

bottom line - no matter wat u want from girls, ull have a MUCH EASIER time finding it if u PLAY THE NUMBERS GAME. Tell me somethin, how many girls are out there that u think would love u that u would love back too??? IF u wanna be ****y, and say 1000, then fine, even tho in reality its probly less than 10. SO u mean to tell me, that ull find 1 of those 10 by watchin every single hb10 walk by and only trying to get with 10 girls a month?? theres MILLIONS of girls to weed thru, and the faster u weed, the more likely ull find THE one (again, whether u wanna fall in love or just ****, finding hot girls to **** is obv alot easier than finding ones to love).........BUT, if u go thru 1000 girls a month (by "go through", i mean even simply approaching for 5 seconds and getting rejected), ur chances of meeting the RIGHT ONE increase 100-fold (do the math dummy!)

MY EXPERIENCES - i kno the afcs here who dont get any dont like to see me brag, but i gotta back up wat i just said up top, cuz thats just how i was taught to do things - ALWAYS BACK EVERYTHING U SAY UP.

so, thinking back, in the last 3 years, i had wat id call 4 somewhat serious gfs (the word love was thrown around, as was alot of good sex). Believe it or not, each and every one of them I met online (not just on myspace). All it took to initiate? "hey baby i think ur really cute"........i TRIED, i sent that shyt to 100s and 100s of girls and looky here, i actually got FOUR LTR w/ ****in crazy sex thrown in, why? CUZ I TRIED AND PLAYED THE #s, and because of it, i met FOUR "girls of my dreams" (at the time i dated each 1, i was AFC and believed that i loved whoever i was with)

as for fvck buddies and just great constant sex, using hte internet, i just did the same thing i described above, and musta had a good # of fvck buddies over the last couple of years.....ALL BECAUSE OF SPAMMING AND TRYING, INSTEAD OF SITTING THERE AND NOT TRYING

my BEST fvck buddy i ever had i remember meeting her at a club........at clubs, i go for every girl i like, i get rejected alot, but i always end up k-closing about 1 or 2 girls every nite (and gettin their # usually), so in this case, i was havin an ok nite....kiss closed 1 girl, got rejected by alot of really hot ones, but i didnt care, czu then i saw a white girl with SUCH a perfect ghetto booty (not to mention great body, as later i found out shes head cheerleader for her school), and i simply went up to her, said hi, and started dancing, got her #, 2 weeks later we're ****in. ALmost best sex i ever had. I got her by TRYING AND TRYIN AND TRYING AND GETTING REJECTED AND WEEDING OUT ALL THE BYTCHES WHO I WANT BUT DIDNT WANT ME, AND WHEN I GOT TO WHAT I WANT, OH YEAA IT WAS FVCKIN GOOD


you MUST follow what i said, or else u wont know what kind of missed opportunities ur letting slip by!

 

[skip2mylou781]

i just realized this is prob the best advice ive ever given

 

[reallyfreakinlost]

I just have one question. If you've done 58 chicks in the past 3 years, AND work 9 to 5, AND play ball with friends, how the hell do you come up with time to write all this stuff, and why exactly do you enjoy giving advice? Its a good thing you want to help others, but something tells me you're not doing this purely out of the goodness in your heart

 

[skip2mylou781]

I just have one question. If you've done 58 chicks in the past 3 years, AND work 9 to 5, AND play ball with friends, how the hell do you come up with time to write all this stuff, and why exactly do you enjoy giving advice? Its a good thing you want to help others, but something tells me you're not doing this purely out of the goodness in your heart

DONT post unless it has somethin to do with the actual advice im giving

 

[reallyfreakinlost]

DONT post unless it has somethin to do with the actual advice im giving

Feeling a little defensive aren't we?

I'm not going to spend 20 minutes of my time reading what you wrote. I am sleepy and tired.

If you want to help other guys become DJs I suggest you stop doing so in a "i'm cooler than you" attitude, this usually hinders the message you're trying to send

 

[rrrrr]

It doesn't matter, it's inspiring and and it isn't fake AngelPUA crap,

 

[skip2mylou781]

Feeling a little defensive aren't we?

I'm not going to spend 20 minutes of my time reading what you wrote. I am sleepy and tired.

If you want to help other guys become DJs I suggest you stop doing so in a "i'm cooler than you" attitude, this usually hinders the message you're trying to send

the "im cooler than u" attitude that ur talkin about is NATURAL, and im so sorry it hurts u, its somethin called "confidence" or maybe even "****iness", i dont expect u to like it, i just expect u to respect it *****

 

[reallyfreakinlost]

the "im cooler than u" attitude that ur talkin about is NATURAL, and im so sorry it hurts u, its somethin called "confidence" or maybe even "****iness", i dont expect u to like it, i just expect u to respect it *****

Wrong... you're way overdoing it, and when people, especially girls since they're more intuitive and notice these things, see how hard you''re trying to bring yourself up and everyone else down, they, as well as I have figured, will all think your act is nothing but a security blanket. I removed your security blanket and you are defensive, wow you sure surprised me

by the way, real confidence isn't going bragging (to guys? why do you want guys to like you?), but if you were truly confident people (and again, I say especially girls, because they pick up on these things better) will notice your confidence by the way you carry yourself, the way you talk, your facial expression, your body language, your tone of voice, etc.

I don't even need to see your face and I already can tell you are a really really frustrated young man. I feel so sorry for you.

 

[skip2mylou781]

wow its a ****in forum, i type how i want, WAT A ****IN DORK

 

[BingoBango]

give him a break, i love skip2's posts.

I love these "reality" type posts... as opposed to the "Deep analysis" type posts... because that deep analytical, quiet, thougtful, shy type of stuff is exactly what we're trying to avoid.

if u want analysis, go watch some david d.

Because this isnt game. This is talking about game. Sosuave and ASF and mystery, style, juggler, gunwitch, tyler, david d, etc... reading their material isnt u participating in the game.

U participating in the game, is going up to a girl, and initiating a converstation.

Reading and posting on here is, in my opinion, procrastination. Avoiding going out into the field coz we're anxious.

So yeh if u have a penis i suggest u do as skip2 says, and at the very least play the numbers game.

 

[KillaCam]

Pretty good post. Drilling home the no-approach-no-gain way of thinking.

Although on a side note, ****yness, confidence, and arrogance are very, very different. Make sure you know which category you're in.

 

[skip2mylou781]

killacam, dont worry about watfreakinlost says, if ull notice, he posts in probly every single possible thread, and its always somethin stupid.......just stick to the main point of my thread - u HAVE TO TRY with as many girls as possible that u THINK u mite like, and that is how ur chances to find the right one will increase......sitting there and "making urself a better man" doesnt do shyt if ur "a better man" who doesnt approach anyone

 

[wayword]

You have 2 kinds of posts - classroom theory and in-the-field application. The paradox is that when you're in the field you don't want to overthink things (paralysis by analysis) and when you're in the classroom you do (scientific analysis). So, you need a good balance of both and know when to do each.

This falls into the category of the latter "AIN'T NUTHIN' 2 IT BUT 2 DO IT" posts. Read this for motivation before you go out to sarge...

 

[WesCottII]

I like it.

 

[Eccentric]

I always thought the best way to find the girl of your dreams was to wake up.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

As sound as this advice may be, it's pointless unless you know the qualities (both physical and mental) of the women you'd like to meet. Without it you may meet a bunch of women but you will eventually learn that they will fall short of your expectations. Yes, it could be a numbers game but it's pointless unless you know specifically know the goal.

Just something to think about.

 

[skip2mylou781]

ah francisco see, playing the #s game also helps u LEARN what u like and dont like in girls and after enough girls, ull realize thru experience what u REALLY want from the girl of ur dreams.

again, if u wanna find real good ***** to **** and ur not searching for ur soulmate, playing hte #s game is good too, cuz just like i said in my example, u may have to hit on 20 gorgeous girls and none of them will want u, but then the 21st gorgeous girl will wanna **** u 5 times a day every time she sees u, and kaCHING! u just got wat u wanted!!!

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

ah francisco see, playing the #s game also helps u LEARN what u like and dont like in girls and after enough girls, ull realize thru experience what u REALLY want from the girl of ur dreams...

Alright, let's use that premise. I'm driving at MPH and see a highway patrol officer in the distance, I do not slow down. I'm in the GAP and see a great looking pair of jeans on sale (no return), I buy them even though it's a 42 inch waist even though I wear a 32. I see an open flame dancing in colors of white, orange and blue; I reach out and touch it....

Even though life is an experiment one should chose his actions purposely. Not doing so will inevitably cause you to get burned.

 

[pooparu]

I'm gonna have to disagree with you there Francsico.

Your examples were great, it's just that with women there's not much of a risk there or anything lost, you won't know what the woman is like until you talk to her yourself, so there's nothing gained by waiting to "see" if that woman is good before you approach.

Physical wise I agree though, it helps to know what you want in a girl physically, but beyond that, you can't really tell much about personality by appearance, because sometimes appearance is just an illusion.

 

[Qmanchoo]

I think both directions have merit. Depending on your personal perspective, intelligence level, and cultural upbringing one side may be "something you need to experience" more than the other.

I appreciate where you're coming from Francisco, but what advice would you give to someone very inexperienced? You could say only search for women that fit something you want... but without experience how do you truly know what you want in order to ensure you're not just trying to fit a cultural norm?

However once you meet a ton of people you should start to narrow it down, the numbers game up front allows you to realize "what you are and are not really missing" I believe.