The best possible advice that I can give

[mrgoodstuff]

Exactly

But you're counter-acting the advice we all agree on.... don't chase her. It adds fuel to my point, we are in RIDICULOUS times. And before anyone accuses me of "whining". I'm a married man with a mistress half my age. Life isn't bad at all

I'm just honest enough to realize how ridiculous everything is

So you have a mistress half your age are you fvcking your wife and can you fvck her when you want to?

 

[SirBigBell]

This is my problem with women. I always fall for her initial 'take off' interest and things end up fizzling out in 2-4 months.

I need a mindset shift, big time. I'll go on, say, 4 first dates, but for some reason, I hone in on the one I like the most, and then block out the other 3, pretty much.

I hold frame for as long as possible to delay the transition into the cruise phase. Keeping a woman on her toes means she constantly feels the need to impress. To do this however requires you to have options and an abundance mind-frame. I tell women “im seeing other women and will settle for the one that clicks into fit”. Either they hang on and compete or they deploy their parachute and jump.