"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The best music in town is gone

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Been staying in Miami for a couple of days. I do recall Miami having a station that used to be called 93.9 zeta, that played all the best rock music. I remember jamming to Rage Against The Machine to The Scorpions. Now all that they have on the radio is like ten different stations on FM playing only top 40 music. Don't get me wrong music now a days has come a long way but now you have to force yourself to listen to AFC agenda on the radio. So much for the variety of music they had in the city.


Anyone's city can relate to what's happening to Miami's radio stations?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I quit actively listening to the radio a few years back. I enjoyed the Classic Rock station for the longest time, but they didn't add anything to their playlist for around ten years. The other stations either put new stuff heavily in rotation for two month durations, or they're oldies stations that play chart hits. They also play too many commercials, and they all play them at the same time so if you start radio surfing during a commercial break, you're going to hit nothing but commercials.

I'm having a much better time digging out music that doesn't get played on the radio. There's so much good stuff out there if you actively pursue it. Looking into bands that influenced your favorite bands, looking into recommendations by others who have the same taste, and picking up random compilation CDs with a couple artists you like really branches you out in terms of acquiring great new music to enjoy.
 

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how this radio music is affecting your life bro?

let it go..happy xmas..:)
 

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Desdinova said:
I quit actively listening to the radio a few years back. I enjoyed the Classic Rock station for the longest time, but they didn't add anything to their playlist for around ten years. The other stations either put new stuff heavily in rotation for two month durations, or they're oldies stations that play chart hits. They also play too many commercials, and they all play them at the same time so if you start radio surfing during a commercial break, you're going to hit nothing but commercials.

I'm having a much better time digging out music that doesn't get played on the radio. There's so much good stuff out there if you actively pursue it. Looking into bands that influenced your favorite bands, looking into recommendations by others who have the same taste, and picking up random compilation CDs with a couple artists you like really branches you out in terms of acquiring great new music to enjoy.
You know the first time I did a media fast is when I started to like older jam's that influenced the bands that are out today. I'm looking into this Spotify craze which throws in one commercial every once in a while. Cool little program that is free and you have a vast library of music to look into. Classic radio is nice to listen to after work. Put's me in that writing zone haha.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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And the top 40 is just Reggeaton or as they like to call it now, "Urban Genre". Bachata, which makes you want to commit suicide if you are feeling down. The new business decision of blending Pop with House (what happened David Guetta? you were cool.) that is sweeping the planet, along with the Pop+Dubstep mix that tries to mimic Skrillex.

You can try Big 105.9 for some rock.
 

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Thankfully in Philadelphia we still have XPN 88.5 and Radio 104.5. They are more alternative stations but still rock. They will play Rage but not the Scorpions basically.

One of our rock stations went to sports talk recently. But I figure with Satellite Radio and IPODs rock fans have their choice and it's not mainstream radio.
 
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