EyeBRollin
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Your choices would be marriage, child support, or common law. Which would you prefer? Which is better for the child?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
The Best Marriage Article Ever (Read)
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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What's best for a child is consistent parenting by competent parents who don't undermine the efforts of one another. But I get your point.
PeasantPlayer
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Single parent is not necessarily always bad
TheProspect
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Sometimes single parenting is even necessary given the circumstances surrounding the other parent.
But then there's the argument why have a child to begin with if you don't plan on sticking with the mother/father or if the mother/father isn't competent enough to raise a child.
But sh!t happens, people change, feelings change, situations change. It's life. Best thing parents can do is limit the affect it has on the kids.
EyeBRollin
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Did you say that with a straight face?
How many BPD chicks have you banged from stable families with loving fathers?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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BPDs are literally just the female mind on steroids, nothing more. All girls in the west have some sort of issue with some sort of guy they really liked in the past (high score theory). All women can become BPDs, it's just that the ones with bad parents that are the worst. But it doesn't mean the ones with sweet parents are good either.
Do you know what "literally" means?
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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I've dated bat sh it crazy women from stable families, and met more "normal" down to earth ones from single family homes. Tons of variables......imagine being in a home when 2 people are fighting or one is barely home or abusive, money problems, etc.....single parent is not that bad it depends how they look at it
Trainwreck
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lol haha, honestly you're better off just searching for that unicorn. The dating game for black men is so rigged against us. Most black women suck and are limited in numbers. The majority of white women that date black guys are mudsharks which are imho worst than ghetto black women.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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100% agree lol. I had about five HB7 and higher white chicks in my entire lifetime. I honestly can only date white chicks if they are HB7 and higher, I can't date a white chick with looks lower than that.
Most black men I see with white chicks are those skinny, broke, dusty black dudes with those FAT whale white women.
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I don't want to say all white women are bad because my gf and step mom are both white, but most black men just assume they are the answer to their issues with black women. They don't want to acknowledge that they essentially picked a white version of the black women they ran away from or they are with some girl using them to assuage their own mental issues.
Um...yeah, the headline is click bait. lol