"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MikeDaMan

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So the past 9 months I've been going to the gym on a regular basis. 6 of the 7 days a week, have a great split. It's been life changing, I used to be fat and it's unbelieveable how much I've changed.
Enough of the back story. I used to be ugly when i was fat. But there's something about now, women are all over me. So much so I don't know how to deal with it.
Alot of them, sadly, approach me over things like Facebook because I'll admit it, my school barely has 100 people, so I have to branch somehow, and I do get out alot too for face to face game!

Now here's to the issue. There's this girl named Cameron and she has a brother named Chase.
This girl is an HB11 on an HB1-10 scale. It's that hot. Chase came up to me at the gym one day and told me her sister, Cameron, thought I was super hot. I brushed it aside thinking he was totally joking. One day though, I messaged her on facebook. We were talking about the gym dancing thing. (you know, how at most gyms there's that separate room where girls just shake their asses in sync with some leader up front and call it cardio)

Ya well, we were on that topic and I asked if it was fun, I was considering trying it. She said yes blah blah. I then asked, would I be the only guy in there?
She said the "only cute guy" and lemme tell you guys who are reading this...NO homo, but there's quite a few guys I'd consider "cute".

With that said, we were texting this morning and mid day and it's starting to get really dull and boring. Supposedly the only thing she really does for fun is cheerleading. Maybe she really is that boring...I mean, with her looks, I've noticed she doesn't get much attention. She's probably shy to be honest. I've negged her on multiple occasions. One for actually thinking I was a cheer leader and two for having absolutely no variety or uniqueness by just doing cheer.

What do i do? Should I just talk to her in person? How would I reinitiate a text conversation at this point? I haven't been building a whole lot of attraction but I mean...no matter what happens her idea of me being "super hot or cute" doesn't necessarily go away.
I do both online/text and Face to face game.Please help me out with either.

PS: I'm new here and I've been in the game about a year and a half. I still managed to get women when I was fat. It was harder but that made things better for me in the present. Only problem is...nowadays, chicks are coming at me in HB10 and 11's and I feel more pressurred and scared to F up. I'm very confident but that pressure/doubt feeling just shuts off your brain in most situations and you either don't know what to say or how to say it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I've found 2 major flaws in this post.
1: She is not an 11. No girl is even a 10. Stop thinking she is perfect. If you were a Russian supermodel, she would be average to you. IT IS ALL RELATIVE.

2: There is no such thing as text/online game. Stop trying to use it, it doesn't exist. Obviously we text and chat with girls, but there is no way to build attraction that way. I text to set up meetings.

So set up a date and see this girl in real life.

Real life is the only thing that counts.
 

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Meet her in real life, escalate, win. Just move it forward at all times and don't fvck up.

Also, go for 3 other chicks.
 

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Nino-Tk said:
If thou shall ever ascend to heaven my friend, those words I will always associate with you! Haha! Simplicity is sophisticated!
Hahaha totally!
But it's true... she won't be an HB11 once you meet other girls, trust me. Anyway, that's cool. Go for it IRL!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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LearningSlowly said:
I've found 2 major flaws in this post.
1: She is not an 11. No girl is even a 10. Stop thinking she is perfect. If you were a Russian supermodel, she would be average to you. IT IS ALL RELATIVE.

2: There is no such thing as text/online game. Stop trying to use it, it doesn't exist. Obviously we text and chat with girls, but there is no way to build attraction that way. I text to set up meetings.

So set up a date and see this girl in real life.

Real life is the only thing that counts.
Fo sho. I only fall back on the text game when I'm using "practice humans".
I don't know why I'd do that for this specific girl when I see her at the damn gym. Stupid mistake on my part. Ehh, now she may not be an 11...and is definitely not perfect, but hear me when I say this, She's good looking and that's what I'm trying to get across. The whole HB scale is relative. Could be ugly for one dude and hot for another dude, as you said.

Thanks for the advice, I'm going to hit her up in person. I mainly use texting just to set up dates. It should stay that way.

Once again, thanks and nice to meet y'all. :rock:
 

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NorwegianDJ said:
Meet her in real life, escalate, win. Just move it forward at all times and don't fvck up.

Also, go for 3 other chicks.
I like your style bro. I've always hated oneitis and what I did about it was line up 3-5 chicks at a time.

Good stuff man. :D
 
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