"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The best feeling in the world...

Bonafide

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and its not ejaculating... I woke up yesterday feeling totally different. I don't know what it was but I felt like I could conquer the world...if I saw a female that I liked, walking up to her was like nothing... I got 3 numbers on the day, I felt like a God or something. My speech was much clearer, I was more energetic, I felt more social...and I was more social, I just wanted to be out and meeting new people and enjoying life. Plus it was a f4ckin beautiful day.


And then tommorow came. And now im back to my old self, I dont know waht the **** it was...but now I feel normal again and I dont like it... I dont know if it was a lack of sleep, a spike in testosterone or what but it was great and I just had to share the story with you all...:D

good night
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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That sounds fantastic. That's the way we should feel every day!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i think he means cocaine...and hes right it will

except the next day i feel worse than i usually do
 

Bonafide

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no man sorry cant go that route... or maybe I did and I didnt know it? :-D
 

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lol? Why, do you go around snorting anything you see on the ground and just hope for the best? 'Cause that'd be awesome lol
 

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you were in the "zone" , google it.

been there, that feels awesome
 

connor32

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j-flex said:
you were in the "zone" , google it.

been there, that feels awesome

yeah. it's the same "zone" athletes talk about. u cant manufacture this feeling it just happens. it must just be a "perfect storm" of emotions,hormones,and brain chemicals.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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