"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The best confidence booster ever

thechallenger

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lifting weights
eating great
impeccable hygene
all good but the best step i ever have made to improve my confidence/game was to absolutly abolish alcohol from my daily intake
i was drinking alot mind you and actually very depressed
i finally gave it up cold turkey and within weeks i had my charisma blasting like a tractor beam from a ufo. being at 6 foot tall and 165 lbs i am a lean lean ass kiking machine but the amount of booze i was consuming was emmense for my body . the chemical imbalance i experienced was what led me to a deep dark depresson that will kill any and all sense of inner peace thus desroying the game in me
not all of you even a few may benifit from this but if one does than cool:cool:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MrS

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Good for you, brother :D
 

wolf116

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Sometimes I just order diet coke so it looks like I'm drinking something.
 

Lifeforce

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Having personally known an alcoholic (not saying you were) I know some part of how hard it is to quit if you drink daily. It's a DAMN good job to quit drinking cold turkey and it's really great to hear things have turned around to the better so much.

Everyone usually have one or two of these things which hold everything back. When they change one thing then suddenly everything fall into place. For me it was my skinniness, for another it might be a big gut, for you it was the alcohol. It's amazing how much one changed thing can change so much.
 
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