"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The best confidence booster ever

thechallenger

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lifting weights
eating great
impeccable hygene
all good but the best step i ever have made to improve my confidence/game was to absolutly abolish alcohol from my daily intake
i was drinking alot mind you and actually very depressed
i finally gave it up cold turkey and within weeks i had my charisma blasting like a tractor beam from a ufo. being at 6 foot tall and 165 lbs i am a lean lean ass kiking machine but the amount of booze i was consuming was emmense for my body . the chemical imbalance i experienced was what led me to a deep dark depresson that will kill any and all sense of inner peace thus desroying the game in me
not all of you even a few may benifit from this but if one does than cool:cool:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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MrS

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Good for you, brother :D
 

wolf116

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Sometimes I just order diet coke so it looks like I'm drinking something.
 

Lifeforce

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Having personally known an alcoholic (not saying you were) I know some part of how hard it is to quit if you drink daily. It's a DAMN good job to quit drinking cold turkey and it's really great to hear things have turned around to the better so much.

Everyone usually have one or two of these things which hold everything back. When they change one thing then suddenly everything fall into place. For me it was my skinniness, for another it might be a big gut, for you it was the alcohol. It's amazing how much one changed thing can change so much.
 
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