"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I consider myself a DJ, and I used to be an imitation of a DJ, the biggest help I would give to the community is this:
..."expertise".....

There are some situ's I know so well that no guy in this world knows them.
I can figure out from the target's face at the first time I meet her, the bf's hair colour (even if I have never seen him), because this situ's have happened so many times to me....I can be so sure.

So...if you are a good DJ don't jump from Beginner's to Advanced to Relationships to give advice.

Stick to a situ, and don't post in every situ. There are some situ's you know so well that nobody knows...

This is the biggest-best calibration you can make in this life....
...if you want to really improve it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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this post makes no sense... are you saying you can tell what anyone's boyfriend looks like... and they have a boyfriend you shouldn't really go for her
 
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No no no. Such things make sense. It is all expertise. Expertise is the answer in this situ. It is good liking girls with boyfriends. They will dump boyfriend for you if you are as DJ as you say. I am such a DJ. Thus, I can do things like this.
 
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Didn't just make a post asking how you should respond to a woman asking you to call back?
 
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