"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I consider myself a DJ, and I used to be an imitation of a DJ, the biggest help I would give to the community is this:
..."expertise".....

There are some situ's I know so well that no guy in this world knows them.
I can figure out from the target's face at the first time I meet her, the bf's hair colour (even if I have never seen him), because this situ's have happened so many times to me....I can be so sure.

So...if you are a good DJ don't jump from Beginner's to Advanced to Relationships to give advice.

Stick to a situ, and don't post in every situ. There are some situ's you know so well that nobody knows...

This is the biggest-best calibration you can make in this life....
...if you want to really improve it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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this post makes no sense... are you saying you can tell what anyone's boyfriend looks like... and they have a boyfriend you shouldn't really go for her
 

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No no no. Such things make sense. It is all expertise. Expertise is the answer in this situ. It is good liking girls with boyfriends. They will dump boyfriend for you if you are as DJ as you say. I am such a DJ. Thus, I can do things like this.
 

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Didn't just make a post asking how you should respond to a woman asking you to call back?
 
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