FindingMyCool
Don Juan
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If you consider yourself a fairly decent guy, honest, random, got potential, you've watched your fair share of South Park/Family guy, you like movies featuring Seth Rogan etc, the occasional horror, enjoy your alcohol from time to time, aged between 16 and 20-anything the advise I got for you is just solid sound advise, no ****... no macho man nonsense, it works, you'll get any decent girl you want and you don't have to suddenly become superman...
How do you attract her? Honestly, its as hard as you make it.
Gel the hair, I prefer that VO5 styling award winning stuff in the light blue tub...whatever, but get yourself to a stage where you can look in the mirror and say "Alright". Wear whatever is casually attractive...
If you are going out to a pub or party, talk to some friends before hand, perhaps have a couple drinks-have a few laughs...just make yourself feel good and comfortable, if it takes a couple (discretion is key at this stage) Jack Daniels or SoCo's, by all means enjoy yourself!
Play it down and don't get too excited about the girl, get to the destination and engage in some banter with who ever is there, find a common interest, talk about movies or music and you'll eventually strike gold, just make everyone at ease with you and I'm talking about the girls and the guys here. Have a laugh because it is all good, do everything with conviction, if you say something borderline inappropriate, don't take it back, dance it through and smile. If you have a good friend to play off of, then sit and have a laugh with them and point to the girl you are interested in and laugh... get a reaction from them, tell them you want to fight them, be ridiculous but not too much, be able to discuss one or two serious topics and then recover it into another ridiculous statement or whatever... Tell her your eyes are prettier than hers or you have a cuter ass... Saying anything really is a good start.
Don't stalk or tail the girls all night... be friendly with the other guys and don't **** block, in fact point out **** blockers and mention how you hate guys that turn into ****s in the presence of females... in front of the girls, talk about the awkwardness of situations... Sit beside a girl and immediate state that its awkward then play with your nipples for ****s sakes! It is all comedy gold if you are willing to have a good time, they will find you utterly hilarious and if they are bemused, walk away shaking your head loudly stating how you heard she was expensive anyway... If you pull it off you'll have one girl that's more interested in you than any other and you'll have her attention whenever you call on it.
I guess my advise is... just have a really good time, don't be afraid to be larger than life... because everyone will respect you for it... get out, party, meet new people... hang out with your friends friends, workmates, your bro's friends...whatever, see who is out there.
Just don't be too stupid that you don't know where the limit is and never take things too seriously, there are no rejections involved when you just have fun.
How do you attract her? Honestly, its as hard as you make it.
Gel the hair, I prefer that VO5 styling award winning stuff in the light blue tub...whatever, but get yourself to a stage where you can look in the mirror and say "Alright". Wear whatever is casually attractive...
If you are going out to a pub or party, talk to some friends before hand, perhaps have a couple drinks-have a few laughs...just make yourself feel good and comfortable, if it takes a couple (discretion is key at this stage) Jack Daniels or SoCo's, by all means enjoy yourself!
Play it down and don't get too excited about the girl, get to the destination and engage in some banter with who ever is there, find a common interest, talk about movies or music and you'll eventually strike gold, just make everyone at ease with you and I'm talking about the girls and the guys here. Have a laugh because it is all good, do everything with conviction, if you say something borderline inappropriate, don't take it back, dance it through and smile. If you have a good friend to play off of, then sit and have a laugh with them and point to the girl you are interested in and laugh... get a reaction from them, tell them you want to fight them, be ridiculous but not too much, be able to discuss one or two serious topics and then recover it into another ridiculous statement or whatever... Tell her your eyes are prettier than hers or you have a cuter ass... Saying anything really is a good start.
Don't stalk or tail the girls all night... be friendly with the other guys and don't **** block, in fact point out **** blockers and mention how you hate guys that turn into ****s in the presence of females... in front of the girls, talk about the awkwardness of situations... Sit beside a girl and immediate state that its awkward then play with your nipples for ****s sakes! It is all comedy gold if you are willing to have a good time, they will find you utterly hilarious and if they are bemused, walk away shaking your head loudly stating how you heard she was expensive anyway... If you pull it off you'll have one girl that's more interested in you than any other and you'll have her attention whenever you call on it.
I guess my advise is... just have a really good time, don't be afraid to be larger than life... because everyone will respect you for it... get out, party, meet new people... hang out with your friends friends, workmates, your bro's friends...whatever, see who is out there.
Just don't be too stupid that you don't know where the limit is and never take things too seriously, there are no rejections involved when you just have fun.