"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The Best Advice Sosuave Has To Offer

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If you take anything out of this site, then please ignore most of the rubbish here and just follow the following:

1)Fear regret, not rejection.
2)Be in a sexual state (gunwitch).
3)deep eye contact and kino as much as you can.
4)work out, dress nice, take care of your looks, as they are the FIRST thing a woman will notice about you.
5)when hanging out with a girl, isolate, make the move, and using gunwitch, you WILL get laid.
6)women want sex more than men do.
7)Take advantage of life, as you will regret every opportunity you missed the second before you die.
8)Less is more, so NEVER give a woman everything she needs and always keep her guessing.
9)Be anything BUT boring and predictable, even if it means being a jerk - girls like drama more than boredom
10)Always have more than one option.


Those were not in any particular order, but after plenty of reading AND applying this stuff in my life, that list sums up the BEST advice sosuave has to offer.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i heard about the tip on masturation.. do it 4 times a week and ur arms will stay strong!
 
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skip2mylou781 said:
6)women want sex more than men do.
That is a myth created by one of the seduction gurus.
 

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lemme rephrase #6 - women want GOOD sex more than men do.......when they get good sex, they want it more more more, but yea dont argue that with me, we all love sex!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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skip2mylou781 said:
lemme rephrase #6 - women want GOOD sex more than men do.......when they get good sex, they want it more more more, but yea dont argue that with me, we all love sex!
True, I don't care if it's good sex or bad, as long as it's sex.
 

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sexy_kuta said:
i heard about the tip on masturation.. do it 4 times a week and ur arms will stay strong!

but you will have no sex drive left
 

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i advice you to decrease it..you will feel better~but to do it put a better and better thing literally instead of it..that's how habits are built.
 

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wat usually ends up happenin is i jerk off like 5 times a day for 4 - 5 days a week, while the other 2 - 3 day i have sex like 4-8 times in those 2-3 days total and jerk off like 4 times each of those days.....i got a BIG sex drive, good enough for lotsa jerkin AND lotsa sex lol, maybe cuz im only 21

it all depends on the week....once i had sex with 3 diff girls a total of 8 times in a span of 48 hours but i still jerked off prob like 4 times in those 48 hours
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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it all depends on the week....once i had sex with 3 diff girls a total of 8 times in a span of 48 hours but i still jerked off prob like 4 times in those 48 hours
Generic classification of a sex addict :p
 

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9)Be anything BUT boring and predictable, even if it means being a jerk - girls like drama more than boredom.


...i got this overactive bladder going and each time i used to pick up my "ex" she would automatically ask me "you need to pee huh?" in a sarcastic tone...that was messed up.
 

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This should replace the dj bible. That dj bible is really just a compilation of posts that some members have admitted were written for the sole purpose of "making it" into the bible a few years ago when entries were taken.

This post is more useful than most of the rubbish on this site. It attacks all the issues head on!

GREAT post!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This is all excellent advice, applicable to the real world and dead on the spot.

When I read posts like Krassus', I have to sigh at the state this forum has reached...at the lack of real PUAs.

But this is refreshing, thank you.
 

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This is good advice I think. When I read the DJ Bible I went through picking and choosing things I liked and honestly thought were good for me....most of which were mentioned in the this post. I really feel from my short time here that most AFCs overanalyse the message board and DJ Bible, only making it harder on themselves. The prinicples are really very basic
 
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skip2mylou781 said:
If you take anything out of this site, then please ignore most of the rubbish here and just follow the following:

1)Fear regret, not rejection.
2)Be in a sexual state (gunwitch).
3)deep eye contact and kino as much as you can.
4)work out, dress nice, take care of your looks, as they are the FIRST thing a woman will notice about you.
5)when hanging out with a girl, isolate, make the move, and using gunwitch, you WILL get laid.
6)women want sex more than men do.
7)Take advantage of life, as you will regret every opportunity you missed the second before you die.
8)Less is more, so NEVER give a woman everything she needs and always keep her guessing.
9)Be anything BUT boring and predictable, even if it means being a jerk - girls like drama more than boredom
10)Always have more than one option.
I am going to challenge these claims.
1)You can say don't fear rejection all you want, and maybe you can do a good job pretending you don't, but fear is a natural instinct.
2)Are you talking about viagra? how the hell can you be in a sexual state 24/7?
3)Ok, I think too much eye contact will come off as creepy...just my 2 cents.
4)How many designer clothes is enough? How much exercise is enough? I am overweight AND i wear ****ty clothes but I still get girls, not often of course. You can't compete with a millionaire. You can't compete with Brad Pitt. the problem with your statement here is ITS NEVER ENOUGH.
5)isolate? make the move? gunwitch? this sounds VERY VERY creepy!
6)not gonna argue about that one
7)yeah, and I'll be on my death-bed going "wow I'm sure glad I f*cked X number of girls! man, who cares about my family or friends? My p*ssy tally sheet is all that matters!"
8)One of the few advice that you say is true
9)Be a drama queen? Look women are drama-fanatics, but you shouldn't put fuel on the fire. Maybe some women play these mindf*ck games, but they're the mentally ill ones, seriously try finding a mentally healthy, stable girl.
10)here's another option, why don't you put some good advice for once
 

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I am going to challenge these claims.
1)You can say don't fear rejection all you want, and maybe you can do a good job pretending you don't, but fear is a natural instinct.
2)Are you talking about viagra? how the hell can you be in a sexual state 24/7?
3)Ok, I think too much eye contact will come off as creepy...just my 2 cents.
4)How many designer clothes is enough? How much exercise is enough? I am overweight AND i wear ****ty clothes but I still get girls, not often of course. You can't compete with a millionaire. You can't compete with Brad Pitt. the problem with your statement here is ITS NEVER ENOUGH.
5)isolate? make the move? gunwitch? this sounds VERY VERY creepy!
6)not gonna argue about that one
7)yeah, and I'll be on my death-bed going "wow I'm sure glad I f*cked X number of girls! man, who cares about my family or friends? My p*ssy tally sheet is all that matters!"
8)One of the few advice that you say is true
9)Be a drama queen? Look women are drama-fanatics, but you shouldn't put fuel on the fire. Maybe some women play these mindf*ck games, but they're the mentally ill ones, seriously try finding a mentally healthy, stable girl.
10)here's another option, why don't you put some good advice for once
1. This site is foremost about bettering ourselves, I'd say we can all strive to overcome fears.
2. No arguement there, but those sexual vibes help when you're going in for the close.
3. But not enough eye contact and you come off looking nervous and insecure, it's all about moderation.
4. Keeping with the theme of bettering ourselves, we should strive to look the best we can within our means. Who said you have to have designer clothes? I know I've seen some designer things that look much worse than the $5 t-shirt I was wearing. You may not believe you can compete with a millionare or a movie star, but I'm willing to give them a run for their money.
5. I'm with you on that, but I'm not familiar with the theory.
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7. My sarcasm meter spiked on this one, so it gets left alone.
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9. Again, a DJ has to balance the two extremes. Drama queen isn't something we want to be labeled, but neither is boring.
10. :)


EDIT : One more thing, OP, I don't think you can really claim your own advice to be the best... that's a task best left up to other, hopefully less biased people.
 
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Nethel said:
4. Keeping with the theme of bettering ourselves, we should strive to look the best we can within our means. Who said you have to have designer clothes? I know I've seen some designer things that look much worse than the $5 t-shirt I was wearing. You may not believe you can compete with a millionare or a movie star, but I'm willing to give them a run for their money.
When you steal the women of donald trump and brad pitt, give me an email... I'll congratulate you with a "special person of the week" sticker
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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