"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Beach....

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What the heck is it with women, personal ads, and the beach?

65% of all online ads emphasize the "beach" as if that is the secret key to a great relationship.

The older I get, the more translating of women-speak I do. Are all these ads basically saying "I want a man with an ocean-view property worth a minimum value of 1.2 million?"

Is that what all the women are saying in their ads? Are they're just saying it in a "nice" way because they are "nice" girls?

Or am I getting too cynical in my old age?

And speaking of age.....half of them are fibbing about their age.

Online is a wasteland of female rejects with lot's of men who believe that's as good as it gets. It seems so messed up.

Just my opinion. Thoughts?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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After Finishing their younger years foorking around, they have to settle down correct.
they want to settle down with a beta provider who makes good amount of money so they can rest their lazy asx.
Money brings property/luxuries/comfort etc.... why not state that she wants a guy with money indirectly( by stating she wants a beach house).
 

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Bingo,
It's the same covert qualifier as "I like to travel". Hence if you want a ticket to that ride you better have enough disposable income to afford her "travel".
KC
 

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OP you aren't getting cynical, you are getting wise.

I have dated both online and real world meets over the years. While it's easier to meet a lot of chicks in a short amount of time online, you always have to realize that it's also easier for her to meet a lot of guys the same way. Generally, I like to use online to sharpen my skills and practice for when I go out sargging. As far as the quality of women online goes, there is a higher chance of disappointment in online meets due to what you saw in the profile vs what you see when you meet up with them. In real world meets, you already know what they look like so that isn't an issue but in the end they still have just as much of a chance as being a crazy b|tch as one from online would. My last two real world meets have been complete nut cases, and I'm dating one from online right now who seems, after 6 months of casual dating, that she may be at least somewhat normal.t. But time will tell, lots and lots and lots of it. It's a crapshoot either way, online vs real world. Keep your expectations in check, keep your options open, and be ready to walk any second, and you will fair well no matter what :up:
 

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All of that makes sense. But it seems most of the low quality women online feel they are entitled to a beach house? Just seems laughable.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ive been into online dating for over than 6 years,, met with nearly 50 women and can tell you that its just a waste of time,, few gems can be found but 90 percent have some sort of issue, bagagge etc.. basically online dating for me falls into,, pump and dump.. nothing else.
 

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You infer all that from a woman liking the beach? 99% of all people like the beach.

Alot of my and my friend's favorite memories of childhood and now parenthood have taken place there. I've kissed and fvcked there too.

What kind of Summer Scrooge has a problem with somebody liking the beach?
 

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The cuck life of an e-preener

FairShake said:
What kind of Summer Scrooge has a problem with somebody liking the beach?
http://mpcdot.com/forums/public/style_emoticons/default/anim-hurr.gif

What kind of cucked e-preener gets rattled by men making some casual observations and noticing social trends? Don't watch an episode of Seinfeld with FairShake whatever you do. It could become "problematic"

Jerry to George: What is it with women and shoes?

FairShake: :box:
 

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Only met 2 online. ONE was a b1tch, one was about 25 lbs heavier than she said....
 

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( . )( . ) said:
http://mpcdot.com/forums/public/style_emoticons/default/anim-hurr.gif

What kind of cucked e-preener gets rattled by men making some casual observations and noticing social trends? Don't watch an episode of Seinfeld with FairShake whatever you do. It could become "problematic"

Jerry to George: What is it with women and shoes?

FairShake: :box:
Clearly I rankled somebody who has sand in her vagina.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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In my opinion, women loving the beach has nothing to do with online. Just about every woman you'll ever meet loves the beach. All of those corny cliches about holding hands and walking the beach at sunset applies to just about every woman. The DJ would be wise to leverage this and use it to his advantage.

I used to live 5 miles away from Clearwater Beach, and it was almost too easy for me to invite women out to the beach. They would come from all over the Bay Area for a beach date, and it was usually surprisingly easy to take them back to my crappy little beach apartment and fukk them overnight. The beach help me clean up with women. It is not a good place to meet women, but it is an excellent place to take women.
Whoever came up with those "salt life" stickers is rolling in the dough at this point.
 
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