"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The Basic Principles of DJism

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After alot of reading, observations and living, this is what I believe the Principles to how a DJ should live his life.

1.) Love and accept oneself

2.) Have a great perception of the world

3.) Live Authentically

4.) Pursue a Passion

5.) Live a Passionate life

6.) Women - Never to be the focus and all the Djism tricks are just icing on the cake.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I know exactly where you are coming from but for the sake of everyone would you elaborate on having a great perception of the world. I believe this is the major obstacle for guys with living authentically a close second.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I know exactly where you are coming from but for the sake of everyone would you elaborate on having a great perception of the world. I believe this is the major obstacle for guys with living authentically a close second.
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Being positive on the outcomes and not looking at the negative aspects of situations. Believe the world is a beautiful place with beautiful people and the meaning of life is to have fun and help others. Some things you can do to get a better perspective on life it to help out with ur local community centers, volunteer, fundraise for charities, donate to charities, dedicate yourself to a hooby or cause. Surround yourself around positive and smart people. Once you start believing that you can accomplish things for yourself others will believe in you. Its not about being first, its about you being first in your life and your eyes. Its not about the destiny its about the way you got there that makes life spectacular. Accept that change will not happen overnight and if it did life would be boring.

Love women but most importantly love life! Hope that helps!
 
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Ask me that question in another 10 years

Francisco d'Anconia said:
I know exactly where you are coming from but for the sake of everyone would you elaborate on having a great perception of the world. I believe this is the major obstacle for guys with living authentically a close second.
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Francisco my friend...I'm only 20 years old and I've still got plenty of living to do. Maybe in another 10 years or so I can give you a better answer than the one I have right now.
 
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Roly said:
Francisco my friend...I'm only 20 years old and I've still got plenty of living to do. Maybe in another 10 years or so I can give you a better answer than the one I have right now.
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This is one of the best answers I've ever read, it's truly authentic. :up:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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would you elaborate on having a great perception of the world. I believe this is the major obstacle for guys with living authentically a close second.
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IDK but the way I percieve things is never assume things about people/places/anything in general in life you will only setting yourself up to dissappointment if something you think is.....isn't....
 
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