"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Basic Principles of DJism

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After alot of reading, observations and living, this is what I believe the Principles to how a DJ should live his life.

1.) Love and accept oneself

2.) Have a great perception of the world

3.) Live Authentically

4.) Pursue a Passion

5.) Live a Passionate life

6.) Women - Never to be the focus and all the Djism tricks are just icing on the cake.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I know exactly where you are coming from but for the sake of everyone would you elaborate on having a great perception of the world. I believe this is the major obstacle for guys with living authentically a close second.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I know exactly where you are coming from but for the sake of everyone would you elaborate on having a great perception of the world. I believe this is the major obstacle for guys with living authentically a close second.

Being positive on the outcomes and not looking at the negative aspects of situations. Believe the world is a beautiful place with beautiful people and the meaning of life is to have fun and help others. Some things you can do to get a better perspective on life it to help out with ur local community centers, volunteer, fundraise for charities, donate to charities, dedicate yourself to a hooby or cause. Surround yourself around positive and smart people. Once you start believing that you can accomplish things for yourself others will believe in you. Its not about being first, its about you being first in your life and your eyes. Its not about the destiny its about the way you got there that makes life spectacular. Accept that change will not happen overnight and if it did life would be boring.

Love women but most importantly love life! Hope that helps!
 

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Ask me that question in another 10 years

Francisco d'Anconia said:
I know exactly where you are coming from but for the sake of everyone would you elaborate on having a great perception of the world. I believe this is the major obstacle for guys with living authentically a close second.

Francisco my friend...I'm only 20 years old and I've still got plenty of living to do. Maybe in another 10 years or so I can give you a better answer than the one I have right now.
 

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Roly said:
Francisco my friend...I'm only 20 years old and I've still got plenty of living to do. Maybe in another 10 years or so I can give you a better answer than the one I have right now.
This is one of the best answers I've ever read, it's truly authentic. :up:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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would you elaborate on having a great perception of the world. I believe this is the major obstacle for guys with living authentically a close second.
IDK but the way I percieve things is never assume things about people/places/anything in general in life you will only setting yourself up to dissappointment if something you think is.....isn't....
 
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